The harm of not speaking for a long time

The harm of not talking for a long time is that you will definitely feel depressed after that. Without communication, it will gradually become psychologically paranoid. When you want to do something, you are likely to go to extremes. It definitely has an impact on speaking. It won't be said, but it may get in the way. It will look different. For example, language is not sentences, or cannot be understood by ordinary people. This kind of person actually has very complex psychological activities and is very good at thinking. If guided, it can still be corrected.

1. Every group has protagonists and supporting roles

Not only do movies have protagonists and supporting roles, they also exist in groups. Each group has core members and basic members. Those core members are the leaders of the group's topics and the most active people in the group. It is these people who make the existence of this group valuable. But having these people alone is not enough, a group also needs a large number of supporting roles. Although these members don’t talk much, they are the foundation of the group. Only when a group has active members and basic members can the group function better.

2. Watching is also a form of participation. Not speaking does not mean not caring.

People who never speak in the group and never leave the group are actually participating in the group topics, but just as a observer. They are very concerned about the recent situation of the people in the group and hope to get more information from the group. Groups, in a sense, give them a sense of belonging, especially classmates groups and owner groups. They will also read every message in the group carefully, but they don’t know how to participate.

3. Why don’t they speak?

There are many reasons. Some are because one is not good at expressing oneself or has been apart for too long and does not know what to say. Some people feel that their knowledge is limited and they cannot say anything interesting. Some feel that they have a lower social status and dare not speak out because of their inferiority complex. Some of them did not have a good relationship with their classmates in school, so it is not convenient for them to speak now. They don't speak because they feel they are not suitable to speak in the group; they don't leave the group because they also want to participate in their hearts.