How to maintain a long distance relationship?

When it comes to long-distance relationships, most people are familiar with them. Moreover, the relationship in long-distance relationships is often fragile. If you are not careful, it is easy for two people to go their separate ways. However, in life, most long-distance relationships end in a breakup, and very few can stick to it. Many lovers often feel that long-distance relationships are particularly testing of people's patience. So how can we maintain a long-distance relationship?

How to maintain a long distance relationship

1. Mutual trust

Psychologists have said that trust is like when there is no factual basis, we still believe in each other. This feeling is like belief and does not require any reason.

Therefore, the first thing to do in a long-distance relationship is to trust each other. If there is a lack of trust, you will find that no matter what you do or say next, the other party will maintain a "suspicious" attitude, and even do not believe every word and every punctuation mark you say. This clearly shows that they have lost trust in you. So, after the loss of trust, this "long-distance relationship" between two people is equivalent to coming to an end.

You know, the trust between men and women is a "gradual" process from the initial contact to the final verification. Most of the time when you first meet, trust is like bubbles and is relatively fragile. But after a period of getting along and verification, you can objectively understand and know each other. If two people are already very familiar with each other, but the other party is still not trustworthy enough, then you must remember to resolve it as soon as possible.

2. Don’t let conflicts last overnight, and don’t let cold wars happen in different places

The most common thing for long-distance couples is conflicts arising from small things or incidents.

If two people often challenge each other during the course of their relationship, the conflicts that arise cannot be communicated and resolved in a timely manner, and they often engage in long-distance cold wars, then the quarrels will increase day by day, leading to emotional disharmony between the two people, and ultimately leading to many problems beyond the relationship.

For example, if you don't mediate in time after a conflict or quarrel between you and your partner, she will think that you don't care about her. Eventually, under the persuasion of friends or besties, she breaks up with you and chooses to be with another boy. After all, you are in different places and there are too many unspeakable things.

Leaving a conflict overnight is equivalent to speeding up the breakup. So, if you want to maintain a long-distance relationship, you can't let the conflict leave overnight, and you can't have a long-distance cold war. When two people have disagreements, they must learn to take the initiative to mediate. No matter whether it's a man or a woman, both sides must learn to take a step back, so that the sky will be clear.

3. Spend more time and chat more

If you can't meet each other often, you can only learn to spend more time together, because all long-distance relationships start with chatting.

You know, compared to long-distance couples who are not in the same place, long-distance couples can make appointments to meet, chat, or even travel at any time, but those who are really in different places cannot do these things, let alone go on a trip at a moment's notice. Therefore, long-distance couples can only maintain their relationship by spending more time together and chatting more.

You have to know that feelings are developed through conversation, especially long-distance relationships, which require more communication between each other. In the communication, you get to know each other. Although not in reality, you can still feel the other person's "joys, sorrows, anger and happiness" firsthand.

Long-distance relationships are very tiring. Two people live in different cities, and everyone is doing things like eating, reading, working out, playing ball, surfing the Internet, etc.!