Taming the Male Chauvinist

Everyone knows that male chauvinists have a particularly strong desire for control and will behave arbitrarily in life. In many cases, especially when there are outsiders around, they will order women around. When being with such men, women need patience and a lot of skills. If women still want to change male chauvinists, they must be prepared to sacrifice themselves for a long time.

Don't try to argue with him . It's meaningless to quarrel or debate with him. It will only widen the conflict and deepen the rift. It’s not about who wins or who loses between lovers. If one person wins, both of them are naked. If one person loses, both of them lose. Of course, one should not be tolerant blindly, because the tolerant party is only giving in on specific issues, but cannot tolerate the dominated position for a long time. Although there is no conflict on the surface, there will be alienation and indifference towards emotions in the heart. The damage to the marriage relationship is more hidden than quarrels, but it is equally fatal.

Temporarily agree with the other party to avoid conflict . For male chauvinists, you can temporarily agree with the other party's opinion, but don't let him control your specific actions. On the one hand, affirm his needs and do not argue about his starting point. Male chauvinists often regard other people's different opinions as criticism of their own personality and soul. Don't evaluate the value of his opinions, so as to maintain the other person's self-esteem. Secondly, you need to help your lover understand that freedom within marriage is relative for both people. What you want is not the freedom to completely control two people, but just the freedom to live your own life. You have to make the other person understand this clearly. He is a bit chauvinistic and tries to find ways to use the opponent's force to his advantage , but that doesn't mean he lacks romantic kindness. They treat life as a task, but they are good at completing it. If you can help your lover realize that marriage is a happy game rather than just a task, you will be able to use the positive factors in his personality to make family life harmonious. In a family where the man has a tendency towards male chauvinism, the wife should avoid complaining and blaming her husband all the time. You should pay more attention to men in life, but when expressing your opinions and views, you must have reasons and evidence. Such well-organized women often make men admire them. Therefore, women should be more generous and change their feminine habits, especially bad habits such as nagging and complaining, so that men's machismo will be weaker. If you want to defeat the strong with the weak, it will definitely backfire and make the man more disgusted and annoyed with you.

Tenderness can resolve conflicts and gentleness can overcome hardness. Men are too tough, so women should use their tenderness to melt the steel. You can't be tough with him. You are already husband and wife, and you can't get divorced because of this, so you have to be smart and don't confront him head-on. Women pay attention to their words and actions, and understand their men from the bottom of their hearts. In normal times, talk less and do more, show more warmth and care, reduce the mental pressure on men, and make them more docile. In families with a certain degree of economic power and a patriarchal tendency, men generally have a superior status to women. When women hold the economic initiative, it acts as a check and balance of power. At the same time, avoid the situation where women not only have no decision-making power, but also no right to speak at critical moments. Women are in charge of finances, and this is best made clear at the beginning of marriage or when they first get together. You can also collect it little by little, so that the woman will not be redundant at the critical moment.

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