Women also have a virgin complex

Men's judgment of virginity is only physiological. According to the old almanac, if there is no bleeding on the wedding night, not only will the marriage be unsustainable, but even the right to survive will seem to be in serious question. According to Taoist scholars, if a woman like this doesn't seek death herself, she has absolutely no sense of shame. Thousands of years of tradition have gradually formed the worship of the hymen, which is the most precious gift a woman can give to her husband. It is precisely because of society's emphasis on the hymen that women try desperately to hold on to this last line of defense. However, now that it is the new millennium, women can finally talk about their own problems calmly. Looking at the following descriptions by women themselves, whether men or women, should they have a clearer understanding of this topic?

Ms. A: The highest level of love is to be expressed through sex

I don't take the issue of virginity so seriously. Well, it's my own business. I am only responsible for my own behavior and no one can blame me. When the love between two people develops to a certain stage, only sex can express it. This may be one of the reasons why people choose to get married.

Ms. B: I will never have sex before marriage

No matter how much I love that person, I will not have sex with him before marriage. If he breaks up with me because of this, I won't regret it. I thought that virginity was a guarantee for a long-lasting marriage, and I would be very embarrassed if I lost my virginity before marriage. ten feet

My husband will love me more because I was a virgin when I married him. As for whether the person I marry is the one I love the most, it is not important. As long as I have a stable family, it is enough. How can there be so much romance?

Ms. C: I feel embarrassed because I am a virgin

If a woman was still a virgin in her twenties I would be embarrassed for her. This means that few people love her or she herself is a little abnormal. If you have no sexual experience before marriage, you may have various problems after marriage due to lack of sexual experience.

Unexpected problems. It is even more ridiculous if a woman is still proud of being a virgin in her thirties. Such a life is too abnormal. Enjoying sex is a woman's right.

Ms. D: It depends on the situation.

It is rare for people to succeed in love at once. It is impossible for a person to love only one person in his life. If the man who won my first love is not my husband, then it depends on the circumstances. If he doesn't care, that's the best thing.

You can live your life easily. If he cares and I have to marry him, then, sorry, technology is so advanced now, what's the big deal? Don't say I'm mean, I'm just trying to satisfy a man's needs.

ah. Besides, how can I prove him?

Ms. E: Chastity of the soul is better than chastity of the body

If a woman loses her virginity, people have no right to blame her. Maybe it was an accidental mistake, maybe it was for true love. Purity of soul is what matters most, so men should not be stupid.