Can't forget my ex

In a romantic relationship, the relationship between men and women is a very delicate one. Because if there are disagreements or conflicts between men and women, it will easily lead to a breakup, and most people will not reconcile after a breakup. This leads to the fact that many people have had exes, and there is also a saying that the ex is always the most suitable person for you. Some people feel that they can't forget their ex. What should they do if they can't forget their ex?

What many couples in love are most afraid of mentioning is their ex, the person they once loved, whom no one can forget just like that.

But if the person you like can't let go of his or her ex, then the meaning of your existence may just be a substitute for his or her ex, or a pastime when you are lonely.

So if we know whether the person you like has let go of his or her ex and has put his or her whole heart into you, we will not become someone else's spare tire or healing tool.

1. Have the ex’s contact information and contact him/her frequently

There are very few couples who can break up peacefully, and those who still keep in touch after the breakup probably want to get back together with each other. If you get along with someone who keeps in frequent contact with his or her ex, you have to be careful not to become a consumer product during their emotional emptiness.

After a new relationship begins, many people will choose not to mention their ex. The person you like is right in front of you, but let those past stories become history, forever buried in your memory.

Those who take the initiative to contact their ex have not really let it go. In this case, don't provoke others. After all, emotional debts can never be repaid.

2. No contact, but knowing everything about your ex

Many times we are most likely to overlook this point, that is, not contacting does not mean forgetting. A person’s true thoughts can be seen in every detail in life.

They keep all the contact information of their ex. Although they never take the initiative to contact them, they know everything about their ex. They will check their ex's circle of friends from time to time, follow their ex's Weibo, and eavesdrop on everything about their ex from various channels.

Sometimes you won’t understand why he/she is in a bad mood. You don’t need to blame yourself. He/she is just still entangled in the shadow of his/her ex. Since you have broken up, don’t “peek” into other people’s lives. The most important thing is to cherish the people in front of you.

3. Keep the things given by your ex

People always say that the older we get, the more nostalgic we become. In fact, it’s just that we learn to cherish more. Those times that can’t be returned and those promises that have not yet been fulfilled are both regrettable and beautiful.

It doesn’t mean that you can’t keep the things given by your ex after breaking up. What we should be afraid of is that we have to treasure them deliberately and savor them carefully. All the memories between each other will come flooding back, but to him/her, you are just a temporary new love, and cannot become his/her old love that he/she cannot let go for a long time.

When a person treats the gifts given by his ex as normal, he can truly face a new relationship and devote himself wholeheartedly to others.