In what aspects do parents influence their children?

Parents are the first teachers in their children's lives. Parents' words and deeds have a great influence on their children. Children will imitate their parents, and parents' own outlook on life and values ​​will also have a direct impact on their children, causing changes in their personality. The following are several different types of parents. Let's take a look at their influence on their children.

Super rational parents

Rational parents not only manage their careers and lives in an orderly manner, but are also more modern in educating their children; such parents can not only face their own lives with a positive attitude, but also lead their children to face setbacks and difficulties. When it comes to educating children, they will educate them with encouragement and praise instead of beating or scolding them when they do something wrong. Children who grow up in such a sunny and warm environment will definitely be very positive and will grow up optimistically in their future life.

Parents with strong expectations

Such parents are usually very serious, full of love for their children, and express their love for their children to the fullest. Therefore, such parents always fantasize about what kind of wonderful life their children will have in the future, and their requirements for their children are relatively strict. Parents are really "worrying to death" about their children. In fact, this kind of educational method will make their children never grow up. Parents do too much for their children, which hinders their children's ability to grow independently. Parents like this should let go when it’s time to let go. Children will always grow up, and we will always grow old.

Very selfish parents

Such parents are relatively strict with themselves and will try their best to do every role well: children, lovers, mothers (fathers), employees, and hope to perform each role to perfection. So I hope that everything related to me can be under my control. However, children are not as disciplined as their parents and will get into trouble from time to time. Therefore, parents who are more self-centered must control their emotions, be more tolerant and patient with their children, and let them grow up freely.

Very emotional parents

Compared with rational parents, emotional parents tend to be more nagging, soft-hearted, and can be said to be doting on their children. I always want to educate my children in my own way, or give my children all the love and care that I think is right. Children who grow up in such an environment may find their parents annoying or lack the courage to complete something independently. So emotional parents should stop nagging. Children’s growth requires some ups and downs, and you should let go and let them explore and grow on their own.

Strong parents

Many parents have this idea: I am your elder, so you should listen to me. They are very strong when it comes to educating children. They have the final say over their children and set various standards and rules for them. I hope to raise a polite and sensible child through my strict education. However, children educated under such circumstances are not only likely to become indifferent people, but will also affect the parent-child relationship between parents and children, because children will develop a fear of parents and distance themselves from them spiritually. Parents should not be too strict when educating their children. They should listen more to their children's ideas and create more opportunities to be close to their children. This will allow their children to grow up healthily mentally.

The way of education determines the degree of children's self-confidence

We all hope that our children will have confidence in themselves, so that everything can be solved easily. However, whether a child is confident is closely related to the way his parents educate his children.

If the family atmosphere is a democratic one, where every family member respects each other and has a say, such children will be very confident about their position in the family and society, and will be able to focus on their overall quality development. On the contrary, if as mentioned in the above text, the parents are more authoritarian, the children have no say and must obey their parents, such children will lack self-confidence and will be very timid and submissive in doing things. In families where children are particularly doted on, parents think that whatever their children do is right, so the children will be blindly confident and believe that everything they do is right. However, because they have been brought up in the confidence of their parents and have a serious lack of practice, once they do something, they do not know how to do it. Such children are actually overconfident and become conceited.