How to get rid of the distress of secret love

It is not a pleasant feeling to have a crush on someone. The person having a crush on him or her will feel very painful and more distressed. To eliminate the pain of secret love, you can refer to the following methods:

【1】Divert your attention

After you fall in love with someone secretly, your attention will be completely focused on this person. At this time, what you need most is to divert your attention.

Ways to divert attention include: working hard; developing other hobbies, etc. When you are busy with your hobbies or work, the influence of your crush will become smaller.

【2】Make more friends of the opposite sex

One of the main reasons for secret crushes is that one does not have many friends of the opposite sex, or in other words, there are fewer people of the opposite sex who are better than the one they secretly crush on.

This will keep you in a state of unrequited love, because you have very little social interaction and feel that this boy is the best and is very attractive to you. And if you expand your social circle, you will find that this boy is just like that. What happened to you in the first place? Why did you fall into it so headfirst?

【3】Confession

The best way to get rid of a secret crush is to confess.

If you feel the time is right for both of you, then boldly confess to him.

If your confession is successful, you will get a boyfriend; if your confession is rejected, don’t give up, keep trying. It's no big deal.

【4】Give up a tree, there is a forest waiting for you

Is there only one boy? That’s too narrow-minded. If this tree doesn’t work, you need to find the next one. If this forest doesn’t work, there’s the next one.

Good girl, why worry about not having a Mr. Right waiting for you!