The husband is too important in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult one to handle, and this truth is understood by many people. The palms of your hands are made of flesh, and your husband is always caught in the middle. The role of the husband is very important, because if there are any conflicts between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law, it is the husband who needs to resolve them. If the husband does not know how to resolve the conflict, the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will become worse and worse. The husband is very important in the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

A smart husband, when faced with a bad relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, will not add fuel to the fire, but will find ways to handle and resolve the conflict between them, so that he is the one who benefits. Therefore, the husband is very important in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

The two women, the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law, had no relationship in the first few decades. They became a family only because they both loved the same man. Therefore, the relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law is not a relationship between the two people, but a triangular relationship that is more complicated than a love triangle. In a love triangle, there is always one person who is not loved, and eventually one person will withdraw, so it is relatively simple. But in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, both women are loved, neither woman can withdraw, and they should live in harmony. However, the conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in China have been enduring for thousands of years. The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have almost become "natural enemies", leaving the man, who should have the love of two women, caught in the middle and suffering from the pressure. Many men do not know how to handle this kind of relationship, which leads to deeper and deeper conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Many husbands seem to have this idea and like to say it to show their respect and filial piety to their parents. This sentence appears most frequently especially after the wife has been wronged by her mother. Knowing that the mother is wrong, the wife only dares to say to her wife: There are no parents who are not wrong in the world. No matter how wrong she is, she is still my mother. You just have to be more patient! Therefore, the wives have nowhere to vent their resentment and can only cry secretly. In such families, women's love for their husbands will gradually fade because they do not receive protection from their husbands, until they become disappointed in the marriage. Some may escape from the marriage, while others may turn from tolerance to counterattack, ultimately leaving everyone in the relationship scarred.

After a woman gets married and enters a completely unfamiliar environment, she will inevitably feel at a loss and naturally develop a defensive consciousness. In this family, her husband is the person closest to her. Although some behaviors of other people in her husband's family may not be malicious subjectively, they will be regarded by her as acts that hurt her. At this time, her husband needs to serve as a bridge of communication. Please do not blindly accuse her of being "sensitive, suspicious, and narrow-minded". This will only make the distance between the wife and her family farther and farther, and eventually exclude her from this big family.

As the saying goes, "Those who know how to do it will hide it from both sides, and those who don't know how to do it will tell both sides." A man who hides it from both sides is extremely smart. Not only can he cleverly eliminate the two women's dissatisfaction with each other, but he can also please each other for the two women, make the two women like each other, and promote harmony between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law.

The above is an introduction to the importance of the husband in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. I believe everyone will sigh after reading this article. If you are the husband in the family, then you must be a smart husband, so that you can live a more comfortable life. A husband who knows how to handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a good husband.