What is the best time to get back together after a breakup?

Breaking up is a choice made by a man and a woman who can no longer continue their relationship. Breaking up can make people painful, but it can also make people happy. For those who are in pain from a breakup, they may choose to save the relationship, but they are afraid that they will be rejected by the other party if they cannot grasp the right measure. For those who want to get back together after a breakup, they need to use certain methods. When is the best time to get back together after a breakup? Let’s take a look at it next.

1. Strategy 1: Don’t linger, choose to break up

Many people will say things like "I was wrong, I will correct it" when the other party proposes to break up. This kind of words will never be effective in recovering the relationship. Since the other party has objections to you in some aspects, it means that the other party has already told you these things indirectly before, but you have never really faced these problems. So when you are about to break up, don't try to use "I'll make it right" to comfort yourself, it's useless.

2. Strategy 2: Leave some buffer time

After breaking up, they are eager to contact their ex and want to get back together with each other, but these people forget the buffer period of love. What you need to understand is that at this moment, in the other person's mind, you are a collection of negativity, and trying to save the relationship at this time will only lead to failure.

3. Strategy 3: Cold treatment, do not contact for the time being

Since you've broken up, just ignore it for now and don't rush to contact each other. Even if you still love each other, don't always check her space or follow her Weibo.

The best way now is to cut off all contact. While calming yourself down, you also need to give the other person some time to calm down from the impulse of breaking up and think carefully about the previous relationship. Time is the best medicine. During this period, your lover will re-examine your feelings.

During this period, what you need to do is live your own life well, return to your circle of friends, and maintain a good attitude towards life. In addition, you can also make new friends, including friends of the opposite sex, and share photos of your life on social networking sites so that the other party can get to know you.

4. Strategy 4: Reestablishing contact

If you want to re-establish a new connection with the other person, you might as well contact your mutual friends to organize a party, so that the other person can understand your current status and the changes you have made during this period of time.

If you have an emotional foundation, I believe that after you learn these four strategies, it will be easy for the other person to fall in love with you again. But this is not the final stage of recovery. Love recovery experts tell us that if you use old feelings to recover the other person, it will only make the other person become your ex again.