Why do women have affairs

In today's society, both men and women will face many temptations, so many people will cheat and have affairs. In a family, when a man cheats, many women will choose to endure it. However, when a woman cheats, men will show that they cannot accept it. When a woman has an affair, men need to know what caused this situation.

Experience the feeling of passion

When the woman finishes washing and puts on sexy underwear, and sends a message of love to her husband tenderly, the husband frowns and says, "I'm tired. I can't secrete any male hormones for you anymore. I want to sleep." The lover will then keep praising the woman, and then be very gentle to her, and keep asking her how she feels: "Is it okay? Do you feel okay?" Generally speaking, when a relationship becomes stable, women often stay with a man because of their dependence on a sense of security and their fear of loneliness.

So cheating gives women an opportunity to think: "Do I need passion and sex so much?" Can they really replace my current life? "In many cases, the brain's answer to women is: "Indeed, I still prefer my current life, but at least I have proved that I still have the ability to create and enjoy passion. "Scientists have long discovered that women who are often immersed in fresh love have very good health and mental state.

Get back the feeling of first love

In a dull life and boring days, apart from finding a lover, what else can make a woman who is tired of the daily necessities of life think of herself as a princess in a fairy tale again? A lover always makes a woman feel in love. He will never let her cook or wash dishes. A lover will always ask, "Baby, what do you want to eat?" But after get off work, the husband always has a cigarette in his mouth, rests his smelly sweaty feet on the coffee table, lazily flips through the newspaper and watches TV, and yells from time to time, "Is the meal ready? I'm hungry!"

After marriage, most women have to go out to work to support the family. When they return home, they have countless housework to do and also have to educate the children. They often bear greater pressure than men. So everyone wants to find the feeling of being cared for and pampered. What's more, women face more temptations in their lives than men. Any woman who is even slightly pretty should have experienced countless times of being entangled by men from childhood to adulthood and from before marriage to after marriage. By being with a man outside of marriage, a woman can regain the feeling of first love.

Satisfy the feeling of vanity

Men can go to the massage parlor, sing in the KTV with their arms around their offspring, and stay out all night. Women are also human beings. They have to pay much more than men, giving birth to children, supporting their husbands and raising children. So why can't women cheat? Why should women endure humiliation, be honest and careful in doing things? Times have changed. Women's vanity must be satisfied and they no longer want to revolve around the stove, men and children. If he could find a lover, he would accompany him to go shopping for a whole day, looking at the dazzling array of goods, and would keep saying: "Baby, this dress is so beautiful, it will look great on you, try it on?" "Baby, this handbag goes well with your black dress, buy it?"

But your husband, even if he reluctantly accompanies you shopping, is always absent-minded. When you stop in front of high-end clothes, he will make an excuse to walk away: "I'm going outside to smoke a cigarette"; when you try on a beautiful dress and ask him for advice, he will say: "You have so many clothes in your closet, why are you still buying them?" Therefore, from some perspectives, cheating is a blessing for women. Don't passively accept a way of relationship anymore, but take the initiative to choose it. It is the women’s own decision whether to go out or not.

Enjoy the romantic feeling

Women need understanding and support, but husbands are not always the best candidates. The love between husband and wife often fades away in real life. There is little time for communication and a lack of a calm atmosphere. Women are often dissatisfied with their husbands: their husbands lack humor, are not diligent enough, and are not considerate enough. It is really annoying, but who can they talk to about these things - who can understand the troubles in work and life? ?

Therefore, women need to cheat and find a lover to confide in. The lover and she are not under the same roof and do not have common conflicts, but they can tolerate each other and communicate. A lover will not find you annoying, nor will he scold you for having nothing to do all day. Instead, he will comfort you softly. When a woman takes her husband to admire the moon on a full-moon night, her husband will impatiently say, "What's so great about the moon? You're crazy." But at this moment, her lover will send her a message, "Baby, the moonlight tonight is as bright as water. I miss you..."