The psychology of a girl who lacks fatherly love

For children, parental love is vital. If the parents are divorced or the father is unable to be with the child all year round due to work, this will have a particularly great impact on the child's psychology and may even have a negative impact on the child's life. It will hinder the child's cognitive development and may cause some obvious character defects in the child. Let's learn about this aspect below.

The psychology of a girl who lacks fatherly love

One is that cognitive development is hindered.

Children aged 5-6 whose parents are divorced and who lack fatherly love for two years show significant differences in cognitive ability compared with children from intact families. This is most evident in the fact that the former lag behind in intelligence tests such as block design, maze solving and arithmetic, and have low operational scores and full-scale IQ scores.

Second, it may produce obvious personality defects

Such as weakness, timidity, weak willpower, lack of confidence and perseverance, etc.

Third, the proportion of emotional disorders has increased

Such as depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, lack of enthusiasm, weak self-control, and dependence.

Fourth, physical development disorders.

That is, the child's height, weight, movements and reaction speed are far behind those of children of the same age. According to the latest research conducted by experts from the United States, Britain, Germany and other countries, children who suffer from "lack of fatherly love syndrome" in their childhood are five times more likely to become poor when they grow up, have twice the high school dropout rate and twice the crime rate than ordinary children; if they are girls, they are three times more likely to become single mothers when they grow up.

Direct impact

* Father is the source of baby's joy. The way a father plays with his baby is different. For example, he likes to throw and catch the baby, rub the baby, pick the baby up, etc. His way of playing may seem a little rough or dangerous, but the baby likes this way of playing with him very much. * Father is the baby's safe haven. When encountering difficulties, fathers are usually calmer and will not make a fuss. This behavior of the father will give the baby a sense of security, making him feel that as long as the father is there, any difficulties can be overcome. Therefore, the father is an omnipotent hero in the baby's mind. *Father is the intellectual catalyst of his baby. Fathers think differently from mothers. When playing games with their babies, they will come up with some special tricks. At the same time, they will impose fewer restrictions on their babies and give them more autonomy, which will promote the development of their babies' intelligence. * The father is the compass for determining the baby's gender. Fathers have a great influence on the baby's formation of correct gender awareness and gender positioning. Fathers are role models for boys. Boys will learn from their fathers how to be a man and how to get along with women. Fathers are usually more tolerant and doting towards girls. This behavior of fathers will make girls more feminine in the future and also help girls learn how to get along with men. Therefore, the role of father will have a profound impact on the baby's future marriage life.