What is the reason why women have bad temper after marriage

In today's society, due to the busy work and various external pressures, many people have violent tempers that make it difficult for others to get close to them. They are always depressed for no reason and want to get angry for no reason. Once provoked, he would erupt like a volcano and be unstoppable. This type of people is most common among married women. Their bad temper often makes people feel unreasonable. So what is the reason why women have bad tempers after marriage?

1. Unable to adapt to the role change

After marriage, a woman transforms from a carefree young girl into a wife and a daughter-in-law. She cannot adapt to this role change well for a while, especially a woman who has a child soon after marriage. She has the added role of being a mother. Add to that the hard work of raising a child and frequent poor sleep, and it is inevitable that she feels a little unbalanced. At this time, a woman is often irritable and restless, like a pile of flammable materials. If someone lights a fire nearby, it will easily catch fire!

2. Seek more attention

I married the man I loved. Before marriage, I always looked forward to how happy and sweet the married life would be. However, after marriage, the romance that could have been there was all drowned out by the daily necessities of life, and the sweet words were left unsaid amid the children's irritable crying! Women spend most of their time with their children, and men's company gradually decreases. Women who are unwilling to live such a dull life will use temper tantrums to attract men's attention, hoping that men will pay more attention to them and spend more time with them. Women don't really want to lose their temper, sometimes they just want men to coax them and say something caring!

3. Relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is always a topic that can never be fully discussed. No matter how good the relationship is, there will inevitably be some conflicts over time. At this time, the role of men becomes very important. If men fail to act as the "sandwich" well, it can easily cause a family war! It’s natural for women to nag a little and lose their temper!

4. Youthful looks are fading away

How many people have admired your youthful appearance, but who can resist the ruthless changes of time? When a woman faces herself in the mirror again and again, she will unknowingly find a few wrinkles at the corners of her eyes, and can't help but sigh, "The gray hair is the debt of children, and the deep wrinkles are the marks of time"! When I see some young and beautiful women walking by, I feel a little envious and jealous! I just can’t bear to grow old like this! If you think too much, your temper will become worse. Who knows that the worse your temper is, the older you will get, and the older you get, the worse your temper is. It’s a vicious cycle!

5. Trying to Relive the Past, Being Rejected

Perhaps many women will dream of relived the romance of the past with their husbands, and want to have a candlelight dinner with their husbands or have a few glasses of wine on the balcony on a special day. Or the simplest thing is to walk hand in hand with their husbands on the path they used to walk together when they were in love on a pleasant afternoon. However, these ideas will be opposed by their husbands as soon as they are proposed. The words "You are an old married couple, you might as well stay at home and watch TV!" will destroy all your elegance. A woman will feel uncomfortable, and she will lose her temper and vent her bad mood!

After reading the above introduction to the reasons why women have bad tempers after marriage, I think everyone should have some understanding. There are many reasons why women have bad tempers after marriage. The main reason is due to lack of adaptability, which can also be regarded as a form of stress release. In fact, this can help you understand the hardships of being a mother. It is not easy for them. Losing temper is harmful to health, so we should try to avoid making them lose temper.