Beware! These 6 types of children must not be beaten

Some parents always like to beat their children when educating them. Experts say that although there is no recognized method of educating children in today's society, it is best not to beat children if possible, because beating children excessively will have the opposite effect.

1. The relationship between parents and children is not good

The more you beat them, the more distant they become. The more you beat them, the more rebellious they become. It is better not to do such ineffective behavior.

2. The child has suffered great frustration and grievance

Children have limited ability to withstand stress, so never do anything that will make the situation worse.

3. Children who are too introverted

This type of child is sensitive by nature and has limited ability to deal with stress. They keep everything inside and it cannot be seen on the outside. Beating will increase the child's depression.

4. Don’t hit your child when it’s their own business

Respecting children’s rights, such as hobbies, social activities, and friendships, can help cultivate their self-confidence.

5. Girls before and after puberty should not be beaten

Girls need stronger self-esteem, and they will face greater social pressure than boys when they grow up. Girls who are beaten are likely to develop a masochistic tendency, thinking that being beaten is a form of love and care, which results in them unconsciously encouraging their husbands' violence.

6. Don’t ask your child to reflect on himself after spanking.

Children will usually be very angry for quite some time after being beaten. Allowing the child to express his dissatisfaction can give him some psychological buffer. Forcing him to admit his mistake at this time is equivalent to forcing him to lie and commit fraud, which will aggravate his psychological trauma.

Of course, we must remind you that beating should not be serious. It is just a strategy, and it is enough to serve as a deterrent to children.