Is early education good?

With the popularization of the national eugenics policy, many families have only one child. Therefore, many parents hold the principle of not letting their children lose at the starting line. They hope that their children will be smart and full of wisdom from prenatal education, and let their children receive a good education from birth to preschool education. When the children are two or three years old, they start to let their children receive early education, that is, early education. So, is early education good? Can letting children receive education too early improve their memory and thinking ability?

Because parents attach great importance to early education, many early education institutions have emerged. Many children have been receiving early education from birth to kindergarten. It is undeniable that early education brings many benefits to young children. It is also the best period to cultivate children's intelligence and improve their learning ability.

1. Create a pleasant family atmosphere for children

Studies have shown that children can truly feel the family atmosphere from the age of 2, and different family atmospheres will cause children to respond differently in their thoughts, attitudes and general behaviors. If children feel happy and safe at home, their psychology and personality can develop well; if the home is noisy all day long, children are often in a nervous and frightened environment, which can easily lead to bad emotions and behavioral problems. In kindergarten, we often find that children from single-parent families tend to show bad psychological and behavioral tendencies such as introversion, fear, sadness, anxiety, indifference or aggressiveness. They often cry and make a fuss over trivial matters and are difficult to stop. If these bad psychological and behavioral tendencies are not guided correctly in time, they will deviate. In mild cases, they will manifest as timidity, loneliness, stubbornness and unsociability. In severe cases, they will develop bad psychological states such as jealousy and hatred of others, or a bad mentality of indifference to everything. Therefore, single-parent families should pay special attention to creating a pleasant family atmosphere for their children, so as to facilitate the formation of good character and healthy psychological development of their children.

Children are innocent and we have no reason to make them feel unhappy. This requires parents in single-parent families to learn to control their negative emotions so that their children can grow up healthily regardless of whether they are in the bright sunshine or in the storm.

2. Create a good cultural atmosphere for children

Parents are the mirrors through which their children shape themselves. As a father or mother in a single-parent family, you should be very aware of the huge impact you may have on your child's behavior, psychological state, and personality traits. You should always pay attention to your own words and deeds and not show bad habits in front of your children, such as lying, speaking gaffes, and being irresponsible. Don't treat your children based on your own likes and dislikes. Otherwise, the negative influence of bad habits will often lead a good child astray.

We should cultivate children's interests and hobbies according to their characteristics. Often take your children to concerts, calligraphy and painting exhibitions, play interesting games with them, etc., to create a good cultural atmosphere for your children, so that they can get out of the pain of losing their father's or mother's love as soon as possible, and gradually develop a cheerful and confident character.

3. Let children learn to take on family responsibilities

Don't spoil your child too much just because he has lost his father's or mother's love. Let your child do things within his ability without hesitation, let him understand the various situations in the family, and if necessary, ask older children to participate in decision-making on major family affairs. Encourage children more when they do things within their ability, so as to cultivate their independence. Let children know from an early age that they also have certain responsibilities to their families, so that when they grow up they can consciously assume their responsibilities to their families and society.

4. Create an environment for children to interact with others

As children from single-parent families tend to be introverted and unsociable, allowing them to have more contact with society and creating more opportunities for them to interact with others is a good way to correct this.

5. Allow the non-custodial parent to visit the child more often or allow both parents to take turns raising the child to benefit the child's growth.

In the process of a child's growth, both fatherly and motherly love are indispensable, and single-parent families should strive to satisfy the child's desire for both kinds of love. Allowing the non-custodial parent to visit the child more often or for both parents to take turns raising the child is very beneficial to the child's growth.

Early education also has many benefits. Letting children receive early education too early will help their learning environment. Many children's good living habits and polite habits are also cultivated from an early age. The external environment also has a great impact on children. The child's brain develops fastest before the age of three, so many parents must seize this opportunity to cultivate good habits for their children. At the same time, they must also be careful not to overwork the children and choose early education correctly.