What to do if you can't control your drinking

Some people like to drink white wine, some people like to drink red wine, but no matter what kind of wine, what should we do if some people can't control the amount of drinking? The final result of not being able to control the amount of alcohol you drink is getting drunk, which is actually quite harmful to your body. In particular, some people will experience headaches after drinking too much, which is a manifestation of alcohol allergy and can cause great harm to the body. So if you can't control the amount, it's best to have someone remind you.

The biggest difference between humans and beasts is whether or not to drink. Those who do not drink alcohol cannot be considered wild beasts, but if they drink too much, they are no different from wild beasts.

Alcohol is an amplifier of emotions. If you are sad, then the wine glass in front of you will be filled with tears; if you are happy, then the wine glass will be filled with smiles in your dreams.

But all of this is based on "moderate" drinking.

Perhaps, there are too many helplessness in life, and some things may really be beyond our control. Just like this man's drinking, it is due to business needs, workplace pressure and emotional constraints. But have you ever thought that when you drink too much, you might say anything you don’t think about, and you might offend others with your words without even knowing it? If you get drunk in front of others, you may make a fool of yourself and the image you have built up over the years will be destroyed.

Drinking and misbehaving are not uncommon, and are criticized and looked upon with dismay. Adults should follow the principle of not interfering with others. This requires the most fundamental control over oneself and absolute clarity at the strategic level. It’s not that you can’t lose consciousness, but you should be clearly aware of whether you can lose consciousness at any time. If rational judgment is sufficient, then rationality can be abandoned. If not, you cannot let external things control yourself, which is surrendering to desires. Using rationality to control behavior to dissolve rationality is an interesting paradox and the essential expression of human civilization at the individual level.

Harsh persuasion to drink is disgusting. In this case, wine is a tool to distinguish classes and confirm status. This behavior directly makes China's drinking culture terrible and harsh, and associates it with pain and incompetence. This is also the source of many people's demonization of alcohol, and sometimes they go too far. From becoming a degenerate person after drinking to being terrified when talking about alcohol, it goes from one extreme to another.

China's wine culture has a long history. The poet Li Bai is also famous for his unrestrained drinking. He has a poem to prove it, "Since ancient times, all saints and wise men have been lonely, only drinkers leave their names." Du Fu also praised Li Bai's drinking, "Li Bai drinks a hundred poems after drinking a jar of wine, and sleeps in a wine shop in Chang'an. He refuses to board the boat when the emperor calls him, and calls himself the immortal of wine." This may be powerful evidence for wine lovers to refute.

However, Li Bai was not successful in his life. His love of drinking did not help him succeed in his career. He played tricks on Gao Lishi while drunk and was expelled from Chang'an within two years. He liked going on outings and making friends with drinking buddies, but his boldness ultimately failed to save him from being exiled to Yelang, and when he was in poverty, no drinking buddy came to help him.

What made Li Bai successful was not his heavy drinking. Rather, it was the breathing of his unparalleled talent under the influence of alcohol.

We are all ordinary people and cannot control the passion for drinking. He also said, "Draw a sword to cut the water, the water will flow faster; drink to forget sorrow, the sorrow will only get greater." He used this to persuade those drinkers who wanted to become immortals in wine, use alcohol to avoid hard work, and only seek temporary pleasure.

Don't get too drunk, but don't not get drunk either. Just get a little drunk!

If we ignore the current social significance of alcohol, drinking is a way to resist reality and a short-lived spiritual victory. I don’t know if you have ever experienced the urge to unbutton your suit and tie for too long.

Despite the limits, there are still many people who hold the view that drinking is harmful to the body and block out all fun. But if there is a world where all actions are clearly judged, everything is defined by dichotomy, and a single element is used as an indicator, and in exchange everyone can live a hundred years, would you be willing to go?

Russell said that variety is the source of happiness. If each of us holds the same philosophy, makes the same choices, and walks the same path. Then, who will taste the glass of wine in your hand for you and live your life as yourself?

The road of life is so long and the direction of advancement is so winding that one needs to have a firm strength on the steering wheel to achieve just the right control.