I can't ejaculate after having sex for a long time

If you cannot ejaculate for a long time during intercourse, it may be because the excitement points of your penis are not sensitive. It may also be because you lead an unrestrained life and masturbate too much, which leads to nerve abnormalities. You need to cooperate with the doctor for treatment. If a man is unable to ejaculate for a long time after having sex, which results in insufficient physical strength and other symptoms such as blockage of the vas deferens, it is recommended that male friends pay attention to this and do not miss the best time for treatment.

When the patient was young, he thought he was gifted.

Patients with delayed ejaculation usually seek medical treatment when they are over 30 or 40 years old. This is because young people hope to be "long-lasting, fierce, and powerful" when having sex. So when they find that they can last a long time before ejaculating, they will think that they are gifted and have superior skills. Later, when they get married and it is time to have children, they have sex with their wives for a long time but cannot ejaculate for a long time. They have to rely on masturbation to ejaculate, but it is difficult to get pregnant. Therefore, they realize that they have a problem and need to seek medical help.

Most patients with delayed ejaculation have a characteristic that they cannot ejaculate when having sex with a partner, but can ejaculate when masturbating. The cause of the disease is still unknown, but it is speculated that it may be because the excitement points of the patient's penis are relatively insensitive, so it is difficult to touch their true excitement points with ordinary sexual methods. The reason why it is easier to ejaculate through masturbation is because patients are more aware of their excitement points when masturbating.

For some patients, it may also be caused by disease. For example, diabetic patients have neuropathy, which affects the nerves of the seminal vesicles and causes nerve conduction disorders. As a result, even if they are very excited during sexual intercourse, they are still unable to ejaculate smoothly. Such patients may find it difficult to ejaculate smoothly even if they masturbate. Fortunately, only a small number of patients with delayed ejaculation are really caused by disease.

Delayed ejaculation treatment

Since most patients may not be able to ejaculate even after having sex for one or two hours, one of the treatment methods is to try certain drugs that may induce premature ejaculation and early ejaculation, such as drugs containing dopamine. In addition, you can also try to have your sexual partner take the top position, with the wife shaking hard to increase the points of contact between the penis and the vaginal wall, increase the stimulation and sensitivity of the penis, which can also help the patient ejaculate early.

The effectiveness of treatment with drugs or the wife taking the top position is not high, perhaps only 20% to 30%. However, since 90% of patients can ejaculate through masturbation, a more effective way to improve the situation is to have half normal sex and half masturbation. For those who do not want to get pregnant, they can first have normal sexual intercourse, and then let the man masturbate after the wife is satisfied, or let the other partner serve the man. If there is a desire to get pregnant, the patient can first masturbate until he is about to ejaculate, and then enter the wife's body. This can shorten the time of sexual intercourse.

In China, men like to emphasize "endurance" and usually tend to "feel good about themselves" when it comes to delayed ejaculation. However, the inability to ejaculate during normal sex and having to rely on masturbation to ejaculate may also cause problems for couples. Some wives may think that "my husband must not love me anymore and thinks I'm not attractive enough, so he can't ejaculate when having sex with me." Some wives even misunderstand that their husbands must have a mistress and that they are unable to ejaculate because they are "done having fun" with the mistress and their penis is empty.

In fact, as men with delayed ejaculation problems get older, their physical strength may be less able to bear it, and the difficulty in ejaculation may make men feel uncomfortable. It is recommended that the patient communicate clearly with his wife and show mutual understanding.