Signs of secret crush during adolescence

Adolescence is a stage that every boy and girl will go through. During adolescence, both boys and girls have a certain yearning for love. Many people know that if one day they find that the boys and girls around them behave differently, and they often don’t notice these changes, then most likely they have a crush on someone. So what are the specific manifestations of a crush during adolescence?

1. Want to know who he (she) likes, but afraid to know

2. Often talk to people around him/her and glance at him/her out of the corner of his/her eyes.

3. When you see him/her on the road you want to take, you deliberately take a detour

4. Write his (her) name when you are bored

5. I dare not look him/her in the eye, but when I walk behind him/her, I just keep looking at his/her back silently.

6. My heart beats faster when I talk about him/her.

7. When talking to him/her, try to save words, thinking that the sooner the conversation ends, the better. But after separation, you regret not cherishing it.

8. You want to tell the other person what you think but you lack the courage and become more and more emotional.

9. Be cautious when you are with him/her. Then think about whether your words and actions were appropriate.

10. I feel a little jealous when I see him/her talking to other girls/boys other than me for too long.

Reasons for adolescence crush

From a psychological point of view, teenagers are in the period of falling in love for the first time, and they will have a vague liking for the opposite sex. In fact, this is a change in the child's perception of the opposite sex and a process of the child's psychological maturity. The budding of children's emotions and the occurrence of "puppy love" are the best evidence of their physical and psychological maturity, and are also manifestations of the gradual strengthening of their sexual awareness.

During this period, children are very rebellious. If parents forcibly suppress their children's affection for the opposite sex, the children are likely to come into conflict with their parents. Coupled with the psychological influence of the desire to interact with the opposite sex, children may really fall in love early. Therefore, adolescent romance has its inevitability and psychological basis. Parents should understand their children's psychology and give up the practice of forcible blocking in order to do a better job of guidance.