What to do when you meet someone you hate

In life, whether at work or at study, you may meet people you hate while walking or taking a walk. When you meet people you hate, you cannot ignore them or look embarrassed. This behavior will be very bad, and it will obviously make the other person uncomfortable, affecting everyone's mood and atmosphere. Therefore, you must solve the problem reasonably and relax your mind. Don't show your emotions and expressions on your face. This is very important.

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Methods/Steps

You hate people who are too active. You always like to be alone and quiet, but there are always some noisy people around you. They are so noisy all day long, destroying your original peace. They are noisy and don't care about other people's feelings. This behavior is extremely annoying. However, from ancient times to the present, "there is stillness in movement, and there is movement in stillness". Where there is stillness, there must be movement. Movement and stillness are opposite to each other, yet they exist at the same time. If you are quiet, then naturally someone will be active. Please imagine, what would happen if there was only stillness and no movement in this world? The wind would no longer blow, and the clouds would no longer float. You will never feel the cool breeze of summer again, nor will you see the beautiful, colorful and lively clouds again. Please think about it again. You love tranquility so much. If every day is the same tranquility, wouldn’t it give you a sense of monotony, boredom and lifelessness? It is better to let movement and tranquility depend on each other. You should integrate into the liveliness and treat their noise and bustle as wind and clouds, so that your world has an unusual tranquility.

What do you do when you meet someone you hate?

You are disgusted by very quiet people. Silence allows a person to think calmly. Therefore, quiet people are generally good at thinking. But you, being active, cannot stand this silence. Sometimes, you may think that quiet people look cowardly, or even that you cannot tolerate this kind of weakness and think it is a disgusting kind of silence, and that people who read books in such a quiet way are "nerds." How disgusting. Life should be lively, how can it be so quiet? However, "quietness" also reflects a person's cultivation. On the contrary, you cannot hate this kind of "quiet", you should like this special "quiet". You must be able to be noisy, but at the same time be able to control yourself, so that your life can have a balance between tension and relaxation. Because, people who can endure "quietness" are often extraordinary and can accomplish great things. You should also listen to the mystery of silence and achieve yourself.

You hate people who sigh a lot. Sigh to express your annoyance. However, everyone will always encounter troubles in life. If you can't stop yourself from sighing when you encounter troubles, you can't expect others to do the same. Tolerance is a quality that both gentlemen and saints possess. Why don't you behave like a gentleman or a saint for once? Perhaps you will say, he always sighs all day long, which is really unbearable. It's not enough to just be tolerant. Then, this person is a more pessimistic person. Why don't you be someone different from others? When others hate this kind of people, you will be the opposite. You will infect everyone around you with your incomparable optimism and smile. At this point, you have the qualities that a leader should have. You will no longer feel that there are any difficulties, and nothing can stump you anymore.