Eight taboos for couples to get along with each other

People say that a good relationship between husband and wife depends on management. In addition to fate, the reason two strangers can come together and stay together for a lifetime is because of mutual adjustment and understanding. Everyone has his or her own personality and ideas. There are many ways to make two people understand each other and willingly accept the imperfections of their partner, in addition to finding ways to enhance the relationship between husband and wife. There are some taboos in couples' relationships, so be sure not to make these little mistakes.

1. Always revisiting old issues

If there is any conflict between husband and wife, it must be resolved immediately and not delayed. Otherwise, the next time, old issues will be brought up. Doing so is undoubtedly burying a landmine that could explode at any time in your marriage life. If a conflict occurs one day, all the accumulated landmines will explode at the same time, and the situation will be out of control. Moreover, I believe that no one would like someone who always likes to bring up old things. This is very detrimental to the harmony of a family.

2. Getting too close to other people of the opposite sex

You know, since you chose to marry your partner, you should be prepared to give up all other opposite sexes in the world. If you go too far, something bad will happen one day. When you realize that you have brought trouble upon yourself, it is already too late. This house has been burned down by your own hands.

3. Dislike your significant other

You should know that it was you who chose him/her in the first place. Now that it has already started, you should know that it is useless to dislike him/her. It is better to encourage the other person to change the things that you dislike. I often hear some women in marriage say, "I really don't know what I liked about you at the beginning" and "You should look in the mirror and see what kind of person you are".

If this happens, it will really hurt your partner's heart and make you feel disheartened. If you talk too much, this family will be ruined.

4. A prolonged Cold War

Couples in the honeymoon period will have little quarrels, let alone married couples. But why do some couples always have a better relationship after every quarrel? Some couples will only escalate the quarrel and eventually end up in divorce. The reason actually lies in the way of dealing with quarrels. Couples who know how to get along with each other know how to give each other a way out after every quarrel, instead of taking the extreme approach of a long-term cold war. For couples who deal with their relationship in a long-term cold war, things will only get worse and worse. No one is willing to bow their head and say sorry, so the relationship is worn out in this way.

5. Questioning your partner’s abilities

It is undeniable that many women in today's society like to compare with others. They often say in front of their husbands, "Today, so-and-so's husband gave her a bag worth tens of thousands of yuan. Look at you, you are busy like a dog all day long and don't make much money." Men may be a little stronger than women in their hearts, but the lethality of these words is unbearable even for strong men.

6. Sleep in separate rooms

There is a saying that goes, when a couple quarrels, they quarrel at the head of the bed and make up at the foot of the bed. But if you sleep in separate rooms, you can't make up even if you want to. Over time, the feelings fade, and it's too late to reconcile at that time.

7. Family involvement

There is nothing that a couple cannot solve. When a quarrel involves their family members, it will undoubtedly escalate the matter. First of all, it should be made clear that family members are born together, and you only got together halfway, so don't put yourself and your partner in a dilemma. You should never treat your partner's family as targets of attack. Believe me, doing so will only lead to the destruction of your own marriage.

8. Change the other person

Don't use love as an excuse to force the other person to make desperate changes. If he loves you, he will naturally change those habits that you don't like. You have to know that things that are forced upon others are never good things. As time goes by, they may become someone else's.