What happens to couples without sex life

Not having sex is a sexless marriage, which has a great impact on both husband and wife. It will lead to a tense and cold relationship. If there is no sex for a long time, the marriage relationship will feel a bit dead in name only. This is also very harmful to the body. Both husband and wife should have the self-desire to improve. Let us learn about this aspect.

What happens to couples without sex?

1. The love code of couples disappears

We will find that between a couple with a balanced sex life, they like to flirt and have extremely rich body language. This is of course related to sexual satisfaction. Therefore, sometimes outsiders do not understand why those two people always like to exchange words with each other. The verbal violence that seems to be on the verge of collapse actually makes them enjoy the fight because they have their own love code.

Couples who have been sexless for a long time lack the physical spirituality due to lack of sexual stimulation. They begin to lose their sensitivity to each other's physical needs. This is like a pair of doubles players who haven't practiced together for a long time. Naturally, they become estranged and lose their coordination. How is it possible to suddenly reach peak condition during the holidays?

2. Lack of physical stimulation? Be careful and you will become unromantic

Does the body need stimulation? Of course. Scientists have conducted experiments and found that animals that have been in dangerous environments for a long time have sensitivity and reaction abilities many times stronger than animals that have always been in comfortable environments. Don't think that your body will become dry firewood and ignite at any time if you lack sexual stimulation and lubrication for a long time.

Without sexual stimulation for a long time, the body will become dull, and over time, habit will become nature. We see this sadness in women who have long lacked sex life - they are dry, unromantic, and boring. It is reported that during every holiday, many couples get married, but right after the holiday, even more couples get divorced.

It’s not surprising actually. Because they are usually too busy, many couples live a "masked life", covering up many conflicts and inner barriers through busyness. Once you put aside work and social interactions, you have to face it every day during the holidays, and naturally you will quarrel every day. Long-term sexlessness has led to a cover-up of the inner rifts between couples. The more asexual you are, the less you notice this inner barrier, and when you discover that the barrier has widened during the holidays, sex often can't make up for it.

What to do if there is no sex between husband and wife

1. Focus on happiness

"In the past, my husband and I were like two devices connected by batteries, and our sex life was just a physical act. We tried to create some 'atmosphere' in the bedroom, wait for sex in the bathroom, and spend weekends in the suburbs, but the results were not satisfactory," complained Wang Lili, a 31-year-old advertising company employee.

Experts point out that if you always focus on the process of sex life, it is like getting lost and having to go back or turn to a fork in the road that actually leads to the return journey. However, you will find that all paths lead to nowhere because you are not focused on happiness.

Try to relax and focus on being happy. "Now, instead of rushing to the point under pressure, we begin to pay attention to our inner feelings. Sometimes we go out for an hour and then lie down in each other's arms; sometimes we try to use methods such as aromatic baths to completely relax ourselves. I can really experience what happiness is!"

2. Intimate massage

I haven't had sex for a long time, so what I need to do now is not to rush into any real results. Instead, do some intimacy work. For example, some intimate massages for couples can help them regain the intimacy through the long-lost physical contact.