Self-control is acquired through training

As children grow up, their cognitive and behavioral abilities gradually improve, and these abilities are often affected by many factors, the first of which is family education. Many children have poor self-control, which is very troublesome. Not only now, good self-control also plays a very important role in children's future. So, self-control can be trained? Let’s take a closer look below.

How to manage children with poor self-control:

Knowing that children have poor self-control, parents should remind them and supervise them at all times during family education. If the child likes to play and does not do homework, then as soon as the child comes home, the parents should remind the child to do homework first. While the child is doing homework, the parents should take a look at it every once in a while, and check it again after the child has finished. With such supervision, children can’t play even if they want to. For example, if a child has a bad temper, when parents see the child behaving impulsively, they should go to the child and find out the reason, so as to nip the problem in the bud. After a few more interventions, the children will realize that their behavior is wrong, and they will find the cause of their illness. If the parents continue to guide them well, the children will gradually improve.

What to do if your child has poor self-control: Get vaccinated in advance

Your own children know what they are like. Many parents know that their children are prone to losing control of their emotions, but they always take their children to crowded places to join in the fun. As a result, the children find trouble and get into conflicts with other children, and even hit others when they lose control of their emotions. If it happens once it's fine, but if it happens countless times, then we have to say that there's something wrong with the parents. If a child's emotions are easily out of control, then you should give him a heads-up before going out. If he has difficulty getting along with other children of the same age, tell him directly that if he does this, he will lose all his friends and no one will want to play with him. Explain the reason clearly and tell him in a very clear manner what the serious consequences of his behavior will be.

What to do if your child has poor self-control: Self-control training

If a child has poor self-control, some training can be used in family education to gradually improve the child's self-control ability. The most commonly used one is calligraphy practice, which can help a child calm down and focus his attention. If you find that your child has poor self-control, parents can enroll their child in a soft brush calligraphy class and slowly train the child how to calm down. Calmness is of great help to a child's self-control. In normal times, you can also play the bean picking game with your children. Put red beans, mung beans, and yellow beans in a bowl, and then ask your children to pick them out. This can also help children stabilize their emotions and improve their self-control ability.

What to do if your child has poor self-control: Develop good habits

Most of the time, a child’s self-control ability has a huge relationship with the formation of habits, and parents can fully supervise and guide them in family education. However, some parents also have this bad habit, and the children's impulsive personality can easily lead to poor self-control in children, and they cannot control their words and deeds well, which may lead to conflicts with other peers and thus adverse events. Developing good habits from an early age, such as not checking your mouth when adults are talking, respecting others, being polite to others, etc., can win friendship and respect.