Signs of a person without a strong opinion

For people who have no opinions, there are often many manifestations. Such people are also quite painful inside. Because they have no opinions, they often will not refute others, which will continue to have a negative impact on their hearts. They usually do not make the right choices. When encountering some things, they always want to seek help from others. In addition, when doing things, they are always prone to regret, etc. These are some of the manifestations of people who have no opinions.

The behavior of a person without a strong opinion

1. Unable to make choices and always asking for help when encountering problems. The most obvious manifestation of a person's lack of independent thinking is the inability to make choices. When faced with a choice, he will always rush to ask for help because based on his past experience, he does not have the ability to make a choice. He does not know which one is better and which one should be abandoned. He has no way to make a decision and must seek help from a reliable person. However, he does not know that the person who understands you best is only you, and only you know what you need. The so-called choices made by others can only be made for you from their perspective. In fact, you can make them, but you just don’t want to bear the consequences of your choices because you are avoiding them.

2. Regret easily People who have no opinions of their own always regret because their choices and decisions are all made in ambiguous situations, not to mention the choices made by others, because they are not their own choices or decisions. So regret is expected. They will regret why they did that and whether it would be better if they did it that way, but now it is too late. In short, regret is their normal state.

3. Changeable In fact, it is not their fault. From a psychological perspective, there is genetic material at work in the personality of this type of person, which makes them prone to different changes due to different times, places and situations. Because they lack a sense of security and cannot get inner self-affirmation, they will always try to use changes that are more beneficial to themselves to make themselves feel safe. The deep-seated reason for variability is related to the individual's childhood growth conditions, such as the lack of care when the child cries during the upbringing process, and the failure to satisfy their sense of security. Therefore, after adulthood, they always feel that this is not right and that is not good either.

4. Easily affected by other people's emotions. For example, in various lectures, speeches, and even street hawking, people without their own opinions can easily be affected in such scenes. They will be affected by the radical emotions of those people and become very excited, not knowing that those are the masters. When encountering people without their own opinions, the outcome can be imagined. Either they will shed tears, or they will spend money to buy other people's things. Therefore, if you have no opinion of your own, it is easy to be instigated by these "experts" and be influenced by their emotions.