What are the dangers of spoiling children?

When it comes to their children's education, most parents are rather doting. Especially with the modern trend of one-child policy, the number of only children has greatly increased, making parents' doting on their children even more intense. However, spoiling children is a very undesirable behavior, because spoiling children will have a great impact on children's lives, especially on their studies and personality. Children who are deeply spoiled will have major problems in these two aspects. Serious problems may even endanger their lives. Let's take a look at the dangers of spoiling children. I hope parents can understand it.

1. Spoiling children makes them loveless

Because I am an only child, I receive attention in every aspect. If we were to express this with a picture, the arrows on the picture would all point to the child. This is the love that the adults around him have for the child. He is surrounded by this kind of doting all day long. In this case, our children have no love in their hearts. That is to say, he only accepts love but does not know how to give love. He receives love from all sides every day but is unable to love others.

2. Spoiling children confuses their values

Children who grow up in an environment of pampering have confused values ​​in their minds. Such children are in a state of confusion about many issues, such as issues of principle and values. These are all the results of spoiling children.

3. Spoiling children makes them less capable

We parents all hope that our children have the ability to learn and achieve excellent results; we also hope that our children have confidence and can accomplish things successfully. All parents would think this way, but we spoil our children. The result of such education is that our children have low abilities. Spoiling causes children to degenerate in all aspects of their abilities.

4. Spoiling children makes them hate learning

Because we spoil our children, many of their abilities are covered up, and thus they cannot develop. Once this child with low abilities starts studying and living, he will encounter many problems. Such children will encounter many obstacles in learning, which means they will be frustrated in every aspect of learning. As a result, children will not like learning, and finally become bored with learning and even drop out of school.