These are the reasons that caused sexual indifference

Sex has always been a relatively secretive topic in our country, and due to the influence of our traditional culture, sex education in our country is extremely backward. Compared with the level of openness in the West, it is likely to amaze us. But this does not affect our human nature of wanting to continue our offspring. If one party in a marriage suffers from sexual frigidity, it would be very cruel to the other party. Sexual indifference is actually caused by some simple reasons.

Concept of sexual indifference:

Sexual apathy refers to a lack of sexual desire, which in layman's terms means a lack of interest in sexual life, or it can also be called a loss of sexual desire. Sexual apathy and lack of sexual pleasure are two different concepts. The two can appear at the same time or at different times. Therefore, sexual apathy is divided into two types: sexual apathy with lack of sexual pleasure and frigidity syndrome and sexual apathy without lack of sexual pleasure and frigidity syndrome.

Among the well-educated and healthy couples surveyed, 16% of the men and 35% of the women suffered from sexual frigidity. Among childless couples, sexual indifference accounts for 2%, but it is rare for people to have no sexual desire at all.

Causes

1. Causes of disease in traditional Chinese medicine

It is believed that the disease site of frigidity is in the heart, liver, spleen, and kidneys, due to congenital and acquired deficiencies, emotional injury, long-term illness, physical weakness, and excessive phlegm and dampness. The basic pathogenesis is qi stagnation, phlegm obstruction, essence deficiency, and insufficient qi and blood.

2. Western medical causes

(1) There are generally the following types of mental causes. ① Chronic fatigue: work stress, busy social affairs, or excessive mental work affect the functional state of the higher nervous system. ② Abstinence or excessive indulgence in sexual activity will cause dysfunction of the spinal cord center over time, leading to gradual disgust and suppression of sexual desire. ③ The couple’s relationship is not harmonious or they have different views on sex, or they lack correct sexual knowledge, or the woman cannot get orgasm pleasure for a long time and thus becomes tired of sex.

(2) Organic causes: Almost all chronic transmitted diseases may cause sexual indifference. Its mechanism is mainly to affect the nerves and endocrine system, thereby reducing the level of sex hormones in the blood.

(3) Drug causes: Taking certain drugs orally can reduce sexual desire. Such as antihistamines, marijuana, phenytoin, reserpine, spironolactone and anti-androgen drugs.

(4) Starting sexual life too early.

(5) A harmonious and happy sex life needs to be based on good health and abundant energy.

(6) Improper contraceptive measures.

3. Influence of external factors

(1) When people are in a bad mood, their sexual desire is likely to decrease temporarily, especially when they are in a bad state such as extreme sadness, fear, depression and despair. Their sexual desire will be significantly affected or even completely lost.

(2) Nutrition: Nutrition is the material basis of sex.

(3) Smokers and drinkers who smoke heavily for a long time are more likely to suffer from impotence than non-smokers. Long-term alcohol abuse can cause sexual dysfunction and decreased libido.

(4) Long-term or excessive use of certain drugs can cause sexual dysfunction and even cause impotence in men and frigidity in women.

(5) Living conditions: Living in a messy, poorly ventilated, and overcrowded environment will not only cause a bad mood, but also the lack of fresh air indoors will lead to insufficient oxygen supply to the brain, affecting sexual function and reducing sexual desire.

(6) Season and temperature: According to surveys, most people have stronger sexual desire in winter and spring when the temperature is relatively low. Spring is especially considered the courtship season. However, in the sweaty summer, sexual desire often temporarily weakens.

(7) Age: This is an important factor affecting sexual desire.

(8) Triggers and sexual history In addition to internal causes and the effects of sex hormones, external stimuli are also important in the occurrence of sexual desire.

(9) Emotions: Humans are different from other animals. The sexual desire of humans is not a simple biological instinct, but is mostly triggered by love.

(10) Health status The impact of health status on sexual desire is both important and complex. Because only people who are healthy both physically and mentally can maintain a high level of sexual desire for a long time.

(11) Menstrual cycle.