Teach you how to massage the clitoris to experience orgasm

According to extensive surveys by sexologists, most wives and about half of husbands do not know where the clitoris is, let alone its function and role. As a result, during sex, both parties do not understand why the woman does not have an orgasm.

The clitoris is located at the top of the anterior commissure of the labia majora and is composed of a pair of clitoral corpora cavernosa. The entire clitoris is composed of three parts: the clitoral crus, the clitoral body, and the clitoral glans. A well-developed clitoris can be seen from the outside and is about 2 cm long and 0.5 cm in diameter. The clitoris is the most sensitive sexual organ in women with the most nerves. It is usually covered by the clitoral hood and only becomes exposed when the woman is sexually excited. When fully erect, it feels as hard as the tip of your nose.

Sexologists have found that 89% of female orgasms come from stimulation of the clitoris. For men, it is unimaginable to reach orgasm without stimulating his penis. Similarly, for women to reach orgasm or enjoy perfect sexual experience, 5-15 minutes of clitoral stimulation is also indispensable.

The most common misunderstanding is that many couples think that the wife's orgasm is due to the husband's large penis or because the man penetrates deeper and deeper as the orgasm approaches, but the result is often regrettable. In fact, the wife's orgasm mainly depends on the expansion of the external opening of the vagina by the husband's penis when the penis is inserted, which causes mechanical traction on both sides of the labia minora and clitoral foreskin, and produces indirect clitoral stimulation through the rhythmic movement of the clitoral body and active penis twitching. In addition, the pubic hair inadvertently rubs against the wife's clitoris, and when the insertion is very deep, it inadvertently increases the contact area and pressure on the clitoris.

Even if the husband does not penetrate deeply or even does not penetrate at all, the wife can still reach orgasm as long as the clitoris is stimulated and touched appropriately. In other words, there is a lack of sexual nerves deep in the female vagina, and the main sexually sensitive area of ​​a woman is concentrated on the clitoris, and insertion only provides the husband with the opportunity to reach orgasm.

A husband also needs to pay attention to the "art" of stimulating his wife's clitoris. Generally, he should kiss and stimulate the breasts first, and then stimulate the clitoris. When stimulating the clitoris, you must change the technique, as using one technique will reduce the stimulation; and you should pat the perineum and groin from time to time to enhance sexual stimulation. The husband should remember that the glans clitoris is as sensitive as the glans of his penis and should not be touched too roughly, as this may cause pain and discomfort. In order to avoid harsh friction, you must wait until you feel the vagina has liquid secretions before proceeding.

The reason why many women lack sexual desire is mainly because they have never experienced the wonderful feeling of orgasm, so they lack the inner motivation to seek orgasm. There are many reasons for women's lack of orgasm, but in terms of a normal relationship between husband and wife, it is related to the fact that the husband does not stimulate or stimulate his wife's clitoris enough during foreplay (with stimulation from kissing and breast caressing), and that during sexual intercourse, the man is mostly on top and the woman is face to face. There is one drawback to this traditional position: it is not easy to directly stimulate the wife's clitoris. Some women always keep their legs tightly together during sex, or are unable to open their legs due to limited physical ability, which makes it more difficult for the clitoris to receive proper stimulation, resulting in few or even no orgasms.

Therefore, many sexologists propose the woman-on-top position. There are at least the following benefits of having the woman on top: first, it shows that the wife is already enthusiastic about having sex; second, it can fully liberate the wife's whole body and allow her to actively find the sexual behavior that can most stimulate her; third, it can directly stimulate the clitoris, helping the wife to reach orgasm; fourth, it will not cause any inconvenience or discomfort to the husband.