How do happy couples get along?

Many married people often struggle with how to get along with each other. Many men feel that their wives are not as attractive as before after they get married. How do couples get along with each other? Is this a course we must learn? How can we keep our wives charming? How do couples get along with each other? Let's see what changes we can try to make the family more harmonious and happy.

In the eyes of some married men, their wives are their family's "fixed assets", and therefore they are no longer willing for their wives to dress up beautifully and attractively as they did in the past, go out and socialize widely, and become a public sight. They even impose many restrictions on their wives. At the same time, in order to save the family's financial expenses, they are afraid from the bottom of their hearts that their wives will spend too much. As a result, not only does their wives no longer look attractive to outsiders, but they have also lost their former charm in their own eyes, and have become so-called "yellow-faced women". The love between the two is no longer there, and your passion disappears like the tide.

A wife should be her husband's eternal "lover"

In fact, we live in an open society with newer concepts and growing prosperity. Our attitude towards our wives should also keep pace with this. We should not let our wives become housewives who bear children and do housework. We might as well let them become a little bad, let them be your lover, and exude alluring charm to you from time to time, so as to keep your love fresh and everlasting. Here are a few tips:

1. Go back to the "jianghu" and bring back the charm of youth

Many married men believe that their wives must take care of the family and be diligent in doing housework. If they often go out to socialize, they will be regarded as a vase and no longer a good woman. But have you ever thought that the monotonous life of going between home and work will wipe out her interest and beauty, and she will no longer have passion for life and love, and will neglect to dress up, and her image will be greatly reduced. At this moment, you may think of those women who are fluttering like flowers and butterflies in the outside world, and reminisce about their various styles. Maybe you are not serious about them, but you cannot deny the magnetic field effect they exude, because they are living mermaids.

So, have you got any inspiration? Why not give your wife some necessary freedom, let her be a little "bad", stimulate her charm in the rivers and lakes, and then bring the beauty home. It is particularly important to remind us that we should be confident men and not be afraid that our wives will be like a kite with a broken string as soon as they leave the house.

For the wife who is indulged in her small family, we should also encourage her to go out again and accept necessary social activities. This will enable her to reshape her beautiful image and no longer be sloppy. Her mood will become cheerful and bright, and she will change her nagging style when she has been doing a lot of housework.

Maybe, at some point, when she comes back from outside, she will regain her charm like your first love, allowing you to swim in the clear sea of ​​love again. Giving your wife more freedom to move around is a great way to help her step out of the traditional housewife role and regain her youthful energy, which is more effective than applying or taking any expensive beauty products. You should know that even beautiful flowers will wither if kept for a long time in a room without fresh air. Similarly, the wife who once made your heart flutter will lose her attractive charm if she always stays at home busy with housework.

2. Encourage consumption and use fashion to make beautiful clothes for your wife

Many wives become frugal or even stingy after marriage. They no longer buy beautiful clothes and avoid looking at girls trying to sell them high-end cosmetics. They are reluctant to buy even a slightly expensive lipstick. In their opinion, excessive consumption is a sin and they would rather make themselves look shabby.

Simplicity and frugality are virtues, but modern life is much better than before and needs fashionable embellishment. Imagine that on your wife's birthday, you spend money to buy her a bouquet of roses or some expensive gift, but she gets angry and scolds you for being wasteful. This not only ruins the mood, but also hurts the relationship between the two of you. For a wife who is used to being frugal, you might as well try to make her change her mindset and become a little spendthrift. This will certainly reduce the amount in the family savings account, but it will bring back her beauty and interest, which is the best reward.

Do you dare to try "joint venture love"?

For example, let her buy more beautiful clothes and perfume that exudes a mini scent, then she will always show you a new view and make you infatuated with her like a lover; for example, let her go to the gym or play bowling, then you can appreciate her charming body for a long time; or take her to the bar, travel, etc., to make her more interesting... Appropriate consumption will make your wife keep up with the fashion and become a timeless scenery in your eyes.

3. Take the initiative to express love and share the joy of love

We often see in newspapers and magazines that many originally happy families have divorced because of sexual disharmony. The husbands complain that their wives do not understand the fun of it and are like wooden people, so they go out to look for other women and even regard sluts as their confidantes. In fact, this cannot be entirely blamed on the women. In their minds, actively expressing love is a "promiscuous" behavior. Many women sometimes want to take the initiative, but they are afraid of being discovered as sluts by the doctor, so they have to give up.

Therefore, it is necessary for husbands to correct their wives' mentality, encourage them to take the initiative, and let them be a "bullfighting lady". What's wrong with being wild in the secret room a few times? This will not only stimulate the wife's potential sexual desire and allow her to better display her various styles, but will also greatly enhance our passion, so that we can share the beauty and pleasure of sex to the greatest extent. This is very beneficial to strengthening the relationship between husband and wife and excluding the insertion of third parties.

Really, make your wife a little "bad" and make her your eternal lover.

How do couples get along with each other? It is the result of the joint efforts of both husband and wife. Both husband and wife should make some changes to make themselves different and more attractive.