Signs that your husband is having an affair

Divorce is a very common phenomenon among couples nowadays, and most of the reasons are due to the man's infidelity caused by the disharmony in the marital relationship. However, some women only gradually discover the signs of their husbands' cheating a long time after it has happened, and there are also many women who are kept in the dark and have no idea that their husbands are having an affair. So in a marriage, what are the signs that your husband is having an affair?

Changing attitudes:

If your man is suddenly very polite to you, buys you clothes today, chocolates tomorrow, and cosmetics the day after tomorrow, you have to be careful. There may be some conspiracy behind his sudden attentiveness. Maybe he is very guilty about cheating on you and having an affair, so he wants to buy things to make up for it. There is also another extreme situation, that is, he becomes very irritable and indifferent, and he ignores you when you ask him something. His temper becomes very fierce. This is also a sign of an affair. He swears at every turn, and he doesn't answer you when you ask him something.

Coming home late:

He used to go home on time, but recently he has been working overtime, or has been partying, eating, and socializing with friends every few days. You should also be careful. There may be another reason why he suddenly becomes so busy. You must pay more attention to his daily behavior. Maybe he will ask his friends (your mutual friends) to explain to you to prove that he is really doing this and that. But don't believe it easily. There must be a reason for him to come home late so frequently.

Don’t want you to take his phone:

If he suddenly has a lot of messages and calls, and is unwilling to let you look at his phone, there is probably a problem. If you ask him about it, he will definitely be hesitant and unable to answer, and will use some old classmates or new colleagues as excuses to brush you off. If he always has to go out after answering the phone, and the messages are cleared on a regular basis, then it is quite dangerous, and it can be said that it is almost certain.

Losing interest in you:

If he is becoming less and less interested in you in certain things, doesn't like to hold your hand or hug you, and sleeps with his back to you, you should be more careful, because this shows that he has been having problems for some time. As the saying goes, early detection and early treatment are the best way to deal with it, so don't make yourself suffer.

From being slovenly to loving cleanliness:

Maybe he was very untidy before, but now he suddenly dresses up and has to look in the mirror and comb his hair before going out. This shows that there is something wrong with him and he hopes to attract other people's attention and love. If he doesn't have a new love, why would he pay so much attention to his image? He has been casual about it for so long, why has he suddenly become so clean recently? I think it's self-evident.

Started to like shopping for clothes:

Just like he loves dressing up, he, who originally didn't have many clothes, suddenly started buying clothes one after another, in physical stores and online stores, and looked at new clothes from time to time. I didn't see anything happening, but he made himself look beautiful. However, his attitude towards you didn't seem special. So he bought new clothes not for you to see, but most likely for another girl to see.

Rarely go out with you:

Have you noticed recently that he doesn't like to go out with you, doesn't like to go out for a walk with you, and is unwilling to take you to parties with his friends, but his social engagements are still as many as usual, or even more than usual? This may be because he has changed the person he brings. If you ask him to accompany you to do something, he is likely to be unhappy and give you the cold shoulder. This is also a sign of an affair.

Sudden increase in expenses:

His expenses will also be much more than usual. If he has a special situation, he needs to go on dates and have meals with another girl, and buy her gifts, clothes, and cosmetics if necessary. How can the expenses not be high? He gives her all the things that should be given to you normally, so the expenses will naturally "rise higher and higher."

Deliberately want to quarrel with you:

If the previous situation has been going on for a long time, and even his friends are spreading rumors about him, he may find something to quarrel with you and even plan to break up with you. At this point, it means that his abnormal state has been going on for a long time.

Precautions

If the situation really happens, don't get excited. Think carefully about how you plan to live your future life, make plans, and have a good talk with him.