Being too honest, what caused it

People have different personalities. They are not only influenced by innate factors, but also by acquired experiences, which can lead to different personality changes. Some people are too honest, which gives people the impression that they are incompetent. In today's society, people who are too honest are not welcome. Extroverts are more likely to get opportunities for cooperation, develop better at work, and earn high salaries. So, what is the reason why people are too honest?

1. I had few playmates when I was a child

As a member of the post-80s generation, when I was young, living conditions were limited. My parents worked away from home and I was alone. There were few toys at that time, basically not as many as there are now. If I was alone at home, I would face walls on all four sides. There were children from the neighborhood, but at that time, I never saw any children from the neighborhood playing outside, so no one talked to me and I was all alone.

2. Reasons for school

Now that I am older, I can go to school and meet many classmates. However, my grades in school are poor and I am always subjected to strict teachings from my teachers. I am not talkative to begin with, and when I encounter strict teachers, this creates a psychological shadow on me. I am busy reviewing my lessons after class and do not like to communicate with others.

3. Parents’ reasons

People always say that parents are their children's enlightenment teachers. Although parents are not well educated, they educate their children through their words and deeds. Although they are strict, there is always a certain shadow in that era. Moreover, parents will not take their children out to visit neighbors and relatives in their daily rest time. Although there are still some, they are few. People who talk too much will cause their children to be introverted. Now that I’m older, I’m always introverted when it comes to social events at work and I’m having trouble getting ahead at work. I need to take the initiative to change.