How to communicate with others

How to communicate with others

Humans are social animals and deal with different people every day. Therefore, the ability to communicate with others is a relatively important ability, which is very important in life and work. Some people are shy and may even have social phobia. For such people, they should exercise their ability to communicate with others in daily life. This will make them appear to have higher emotional intelligence and enable them to be invincible in life and work in today's society.

How to communicate with others

1. Be polite when you are being polite.

Polite words show your respect and gratitude, so be sure to use them in moderation. If your compliment to others is conveyed through another person, the other person will be more surprised. When criticism is conveyed through a third party, it will be exaggerated.

2. When faced with compliments, just say "thank you".

If someone compliments your clothes or bags, just saying "thank you" is enough. If you say: It's just cheap, it will make the other person embarrassed. Or you can say: Of course it’s good, it’s from a certain brand in a certain store, how can it be bad? The other person will also think you are showing off too much.

3. Appreciate your competitors.

When your opponent or someone you don't like does something well in some aspects, you should affirm him/her and not feel disdainful. You should have the magnanimity to appreciate your competitor.

4. Criticism also depends on the relationship.

Honest advice may not be unpleasant to the ear. Even if you mean well, the other party may not appreciate it and may even misunderstand your good intentions. If you have a certain level of friendship or trust with the other party, then your honest advice may be accepted. Otherwise, do not make criticisms casually.

5. Make suggestions while criticizing.

Be responsible and supportive. After your subordinates make comments or criticisms, you should also provide positive suggestions for improvement to make your criticism more convincing.