How tiring it is to be together with people who have different values

We all know that two people need to have a common language when they are together. Whether it is family, love or friendship, we need to establish a common language so that the relationship can last. The common language is mainly reflected in the similarity of three views. People who have similar values ​​tend to think in similar directions and have similar interests. Therefore, the long-lasting relationship that you can talk about will never make you feel bored. Let’s take a look at how tiring it is to be together with people who have different values.

"Three Views" is the abbreviation of world view, outlook on life and values. These three views are directly reflected in the way and attitude you behave, work, and live. It is difficult for people with different values ​​to resonate with each other, and it is tiring and uncomfortable to get along with each other. If your three views are not in harmony, it will be difficult to make friends or stay in a relationship for a long time. Even if you get married, you will not be happy and have a low sense of happiness.

Life is limited. A year passes in the blink of an eye. With every mountain and river, every day and night, we need to be together with someone who understands us and can snuggle up to each other for warmth. Throughout your life, you need someone who shares the same values ​​as you to walk through it together.

People in love often feel lonely, not because there is no one around, but because no one understands them. Whenever we talk about a topic that interests you, the other party is unable to respond or even belittles you, which is extremely disappointing; you don’t speak, and I don’t speak, which means there is distance. We can never agree on anything, our ideas are so different, and it is inevitable that we will be tired.

If two people live like one person, I do mine and you do yours, the other person does not understand your happiness or your sadness, and in the end you will not get real happiness. The harmony and joy of daily life are the longest-lasting companionship. You know the attachment revealed in my love, and I understand the profound charm implied in your brows. When you are with friends who are easy to get along with, you can communicate with each other naturally. There is no inexplicable dislike or unreasonable verbal attacks. There is only mutual understanding and honesty.