What should I do if my wife has no feelings for me

The most fundamental prerequisite for getting married is that there is love between a man and a woman. Even if there is no love, the two people should not be bored with each other. If boredom arises between the two people before they get married, then the two people will often not end up together. After getting married, the couple should trust and tolerate each other, otherwise the couple is likely to become alienated. So what should I do if my wife has no feelings for me?

In the world of love, it is easy to fall in love but difficult to stay together. When you are in love, it is passionate and romantic. However, after living together, many bad habits of each other are gradually exposed, and the dissatisfaction between each other gradually expands, and finally turns into escalating conflicts, endless quarrels, and cold violence. Some couples can make do because they have no choice, while some couples are unwilling to live their whole lives in this state. Therefore, if you don’t love each other anymore, don’t force it to maintain it. One person goes left and the other goes right. At most, you can just sort out your mood and start a new life. It’s no big deal!

Brain science and psychology research have found that romantic love is a biological program. All acts of love are derived from various attractions (charisma and major histocompatibility complex, etc.), which are controlled by hormones, and all crazy behaviors are only for passing genes to offspring. Brain science shows that when people fall in love, the brain continuously releases a specific set of chemicals, including the neurotransmitters dopamine, norepinephrine, hormones, and amphetamines that release serotonin. The same compounds stimulate the brain's pleasure center and cause side effects such as increased heart rate, loss of appetite, insomnia, and intense excitement. This stage usually lasts one and a half to three years. Love is a strong attachment, closeness, yearning, selfless, exclusive and all-consuming emotion between people.

Human love and sexual desire reach their peak in the early stages of a relationship, then gradually fade and turn into affection. If a couple is in love and is dependent on each other, the state of infatuation will begin to fade within 15 months of being together, and will gradually turn into family affection after 10 years, but there are exceptions. The biological process through the action of hormones is the comprehensive manifestation of a series of chemical reactions.

The human ability to experience love has evolved as a signal to a potential mate that the partner will be a good parent and may help pass genes on to future generations. Neuroscience studies have investigated the chemicals present in the brain and that may be involved when people experience love; these chemicals include: nerve growth factor, testosterone, estrogen, dopamine, norepinephrine, serotonin, oxytocin, and vasopressin.