Fear of interacting with the opposite sex

In people's daily lives, it is impossible to always interact with the same sex; it is inevitable to interact with the opposite sex. However, most people are normal when interacting with the opposite sex. Some even feel excited when interacting with the opposite sex in places where there are fewer opposite sexes. However, a small number of people are very afraid of interacting with the opposite sex, and are even unwilling to interact with the opposite sex. So what is heterosexual phobia?

Heterophobia refers to the fact that on the one hand, the patient has a strong desire to get close to the opposite sex in his subconscious mind, and on the other hand, he also has severe anxiety, so he shows symptoms of abnormal tension and fear in front of the opposite sex, and some even have psychological symptoms such as delusions about opposite-sex relationships. The main manifestation of fear of the opposite sex is not daring to make eye contact with the opposite sex, let alone talk to the opposite sex. Even if talking to the opposite sex, the face will turn red and the speech will be unclear. Once seeing the opposite sex walking towards oneself, the whole body will be tense and sweat.

1. Heterophobia often comes from self-obsessive-compulsive disorder. When you see the opposite sex, you force yourself not to look at him (her) and cause an inner struggle, or you force yourself to have some weird thoughts, and then try desperately to control it, the more difficult it is to control.

2. Fear of the opposite sex is often seen as shyness and honesty in childhood and adolescence, but some children will get rid of shyness due to social experience and changes in thinking, so they will not have the chance to develop social phobia; while some children will become more and more sensitive and inferior, and finally develop heterosexual phobia.

3. Heterophobia is a psychological perversion. The person is not afraid of external sexual objects, but his own inner sexual delusions. This inversion is first revealed in sight. Afraid to look the opposite sex in the eye, with something unserious in his eyes. This is where the evil mind resides.

4. Women’s shy and sexy expressions towards men are purely delusional erotic misunderstandings. That is, women’s feelings and anxieties are less a result of men’s misunderstanding of her than of men’s misunderstanding of her, imagined facts rather than real ones. This is the sensory perversion brought about by the delusions of adolescent girls.

1. You are very nervous when interacting with the opposite sex. When the opposite sex actively interacts with you, you will refuse to interact in order to hide your nervousness.

2. When you are in a relationship with the opposite sex, you will not know where to put your hands, where to look, and you will be desperately concerned about your image.

3. When the opposite sex stares at you, you will be particularly afraid and even "angry"

4. When you are with the opposite sex, your brain forces you to have some weird thoughts, such as the other person likes you, hates you, or even has no clothes on.

5. Often afraid of what the opposite sex will do to you, and extremely insecure

6. Even if the opposite sex does not interact with you but just exists next to you, you will be overwhelmed and unable to concentrate.

7. Blushing, dry mouth, sweating, shaking...

8. Having experienced hurt from the opposite sex in love and marriage leads to distrust and lack of interest in the opposite sex.

First , increase the chances of contact with the opposite sex. The less contact you have, the less experience you have; the less experience you have, the more lost you are; the more lost you are, the more terrified you feel. If the problem is caused by too little contact, then this problem should be solved by increasing contact with the opposite sex. If you keep hiding, it will form a vicious cycle.

Second , properly deal with the psychological setbacks suffered from interacting with the opposite sex. Some friends may have suffered losses or been ridiculed when dealing with the opposite sex, and feel very embarrassed when they see the opposite sex again. Frustration leads to embarrassment, embarrassment leads to disgust, and finally disgust develops into fear. If this is the case, you must avoid generalizing and thinking that all people of the opposite sex are scary. This conclusion is incorrect. You cannot deny your ability to interact with the opposite sex because of setbacks, nor can you stop interacting with the opposite sex because of setbacks.

The third is the influence of feudal traditional ideas. Therefore, they are always highly alert and nervous when facing the opposite sex, and take interactions with the opposite sex too seriously. Associate the opposite sex with fear, be afraid when you think about it, and be even more afraid when you see it. Over time, a conditioned reflex will be formed, which will lead to serious psychological disorders. Therefore, we must solve the problem from the perspective of values ​​and treat interactions with the opposite sex as the most natural thing in human interactions.

The fourth is the fear of being ignored by the opposite sex. People are often like this. The more they want to succeed, the more afraid they are of making mistakes. The same is true when interacting with the opposite sex. If you are also afraid of being ignored, then you should expect to be ignored when dealing with the opposite sex. There will always be people of the opposite sex who like you and those who hate you, so you will definitely meet someone of the opposite sex who likes you, and he will definitely be enthusiastic towards you. With this plan, your fear of being ignored will gradually fade away.

The fifth is related to unresolved sexual distress during adolescence. Any young man or woman will have concerns and a desire to explore sex when they reach a critical age. However, since parents tend to adopt a closed-door approach in family education, boys and girls receive less positive guidance and inspiration. Their knowledge and understanding of sex are often acquired through intentional or unintentional capture, absorption, learning and observation in their own small environment. Most of them are one-sided and difficult to understand, so confusion is inevitable. For some people, this confusion will naturally be resolved as they grow older and gain more experience; for some others, it is not resolved and the confusion from early years remains for a long time, so that after adulthood, their sexual psychology and behavior are disturbed and they develop sexual psychology disorders.