What are the symptoms of premarital phobia

Getting married is supposed to be a wonderful thing, but many friends will experience fear and irritability as the wedding date approaches. Especially some new recruits, some even had the idea of ​​escaping from the battlefield. In fact, these psychological activities may very well be caused by pre-marital phobia. Different people have different psychological reactions to pre-marital phobia, but most of them are inseparable from the following six symptoms.

If you are afraid of getting married, read the seven signs of pre-marriage phobia and see if you are affected!

1. Depending on the degree of fear, symptoms such as "heavy mood", "depressed", "living every day like a year", "anxiety", and "nervousness" may appear.

2. You will become uninterested in everything, whether in life or work. Everything is boring. You start to avoid everyone and have no feelings.

3. Some small things in life will become very difficult. Patients with pre-marital phobia will describe themselves as "mental collapse" or "deflated ball".

4. Be skeptical about your own abilities, don’t have any hope, often blame yourself, and often feel worthless, helpless, guilty, etc.

5. The patient will experience symptoms such as difficulty concentrating, memory loss, slow thinking, slow movements, and show restlessness, anxiety, and agitation.

6. They are pessimistic and negative inside, thinking that life is a burden and there is nothing to be nostalgic about. They think that only death can get rid of everything and they may have strong suicidal thoughts.

Treatment

Fear of marriage will have an impact on life and work. The usual "symptoms" are irritability, quick temper, and easy anger. Some people will be silent and unwilling to talk much, which will affect work and life.

If you are worried that you may not be suitable for your future life, before discussing marriage, you can often visit the other person's home to get to know his or her family, or talk to him or her more about his or her family, and directly or indirectly learn about the living habits of future family members. This process is also a process of psychological adaptation.

When you have doubts and fears about the long-term sustainability of your marriage, you should keep an open mind and be able to communicate with your partner to dispel these doubts. No matter what happens, such as he suddenly doesn't want to get married, you may feel very uncomfortable, but don't rush to deny the feelings of both parties. You should still ask him (her) more questions. Maybe he (she) has his (her) reasons for worrying and worrying, and his (her) worries may not be unnecessary, and sometimes they may be very practical. If well coordinated, it will be very beneficial to married life.