​The harm of spanking children

Nowadays, many parents will spank their babies when they find that their babies are disobedient. In fact, this practice is wrong, but it may cause the child to develop a rebellious mentality. In addition, the buttocks themselves are very sensitive, and it will be very painful to hit them with hands. Therefore, when educating children, try to find appropriate and reasonable methods, and do not rely mainly on spanking.

Main hazards

From a physiological point of view, although the buttocks is the part of the human body with the most soft tissue, if the force of the impact exceeds its ability to withstand, especially continuous and repeated impacts, it will cause large-scale soft tissue contusion and bleeding. In severe cases, the effective circulating blood volume will decrease, leading to a drop in blood pressure and the so-called hemorrhagic shock. This causes insufficient blood and oxygen supply to important organs such as the heart, brain, liver, and kidneys, ultimately leading to death. At the same time, this contusion can easily cause acute renal failure and death.

Psychologically, spanking destroys the bond between parent and child that is difficult to re-cultivate, can provoke resistance in children, and can cause children to physically fight back against their parents, especially in adolescents. Spanking is an all-or-nothing technique because its constant reliance on it renders other disciplinary measures ineffective, and spanking becomes the sole or primary solution to the problem. The more children are spanked, the more they tend to spank their own children and spouses as adults.

Some young people develop unhealthy hobbies due to this normal psychological phenomenon, and blindly read non-objective, inaccurate and unhealthy materials on the Internet, which ultimately affects their studies and life.

The first type of children show:

A child who doesn't pay attention in class. Such children are mainly hyperactive, playful, and talkative in class, and even absent-minded when studying at home. Some parents say to the education of such children, "That is the school's business and it is none of my business. I can't sit next to my child." In fact, to train children to listen attentively, we must start from daily life, because life habits and study habits are closely related.

The main methods of education: First, parents should train their children to do it immediately after listening once. Secondly, in life, parents can consciously train their children's obedience, such as arranging three or four things, what to do first, what to do later, and what to do last, and parents observe whether the children do so. Thirdly, parents should consciously train their children's attention, and when talking to children, be sure to let the children look at your face and listen. Fourth, parents can also tell their children some tips for listening. Fifth, parents should try their best to ask their children to repeat the content of the class, or talk about the most impressive topics in class.

The second type of children show:

Children who pursue money and material enjoyment. The main characteristics of these children are "wearing famous brands and eating fine food." They are particular about food and clothing, and some of them ride motorcycles or tricycles to school.

The main methods of education: First, parents should set an example themselves, live a hard and simple life, and tell their children their life experiences and stories when they were children. Secondly, parents should tell their children about the family income and expenditure plan, and seek their opinions appropriately. Thirdly, effectively educate children to plan how to spend money and use typical examples to educate children.