The most hurtful words when couples quarrel, don’t say these words anymore

When a couple quarrels, they will inevitably say a lot of angry words. It is these angry words that hurt the relationship between the couple the most. Everyone must be aware that they should not say these words casually when quarreling, such as you are so cowardly, so useless, let's get a divorce, abuse each other, etc.

1) Cowardly man, shrewish woman: These words are vicious enough, but they are very satisfying. But I will hold a grudge. It will also stimulate you. If we keep scolding each other like this for a long time, then we really don't need to be friends anymore. This is how I am in your eyes anyway. If you have the ability, find someone else to go. The level will get higher and higher, and the excitement factor will also increase. If you say this too much, it will cast a shadow. Be patient if you can, or even break a worthless jar to vent your anger instead of scolding the other person.

2) Go to hell: I am not allowed to say this because I believe in cause and effect, and there are such examples around me. A friend of mine suspected that her husband had an affair in another city, so they had a big fight whenever they got home. When the man left, the woman cursed and swore at him. Sure enough, one time not long after he finished scolding, the man was so angry that he ran out of energy while driving on the highway and overturned his car and died. There are many such examples. I remember there is a saying that goes: A loving mother will have a filial son, and a virtuous wife will keep her husband safe. No matter how angry you are, you should restrain yourself from saying this. Of course, if the other person says this, it is unforgivable. It just so happens that Daddy Dou keeps saying this recently. I have been keeping it in my heart and will send him to a mental hospital when he gets old.

3) Get out of here: This sentence is very lethal under certain conditions. I remember when I just got married, I had no place to live and had to stay in my husband’s office. I didn’t have the feeling of a stable home. Of course, I wasn’t a mother yet, so I didn’t have so many concerns. So every time we had an argument and the man was at his wits’ end and told me to get out, I immediately became quiet, started packing my bags, turned around and left, and I did this several times in a row. Every time I packed my bag, the man would block the door and threaten me: If you leave, never come back! This is totally bullshit. These words have no lethal power. Although they make him feel relieved, if he really doesn't come back, he will be anxious. But some conditions didn't work. Later, when my son became a mother and asked me to leave, I told him to leave and handed over the keys. I never heard that nonsense again.

4) Do not insult both sides’ parents: If you insult the other party’s parents during an argument, that is extremely hateful. But it is often like this. You may not know how to curse at others, but if the other person always curses you with such language, then you will be forced to take action and give them a taste of their own medicine. Then we will become more aggressive with each other, you scold the old man and I scold him too. This is the only way to achieve equality. There is also a need for balance in quarreling, as if your elder is being scolded. It feels like you're at a disadvantage if you don't curse back. But you don't know that the result will be endless harm and hurt your heart. You may feel relieved on the surface, but in fact, the internal damage is irreparable. So no matter how angry you are, no matter how much you want to vent your anger, according to basic human ethics, you cannot bring harm to the elderly, and such language should not be used.

5) If it’s not for the children, I don’t want to hear you breathe: Most parents with children, when they quarrel to the point where they can no longer live, women will often say this to irresponsible men. Life was originally good, but if you say this too often, you will really just give in. What could have been tolerated turned into endurance. Therefore, if such information is constantly provided to your brain, the harm caused to the other party will be far more than that. The chain reaction is that you will be deeply rooted in the belief that you tolerate this man for the sake of your children and live a mediocre life, and then the happiness index of life will continue to decline. Causing days of suffering. . .

6) I was blind at the time and I quickly divorced: the unbearable anger and grievance in a rage often turn a momentary tragedy into a lifetime. In fact, no matter how heartbroken you feel at a moment, it will fade away in the next hour. All you have to do is to endure for a few minutes and not blurt out the word divorce. Sometimes you are afraid of provoking others, and if you can't say it anymore, then divorce. Another would respond: Just leave, who’s afraid of you. Life is better without you. Who do you think you are! Now that things have come to this, it’s really too late to take back what has been said. dilemma.