How to correct homosexuality and become a normal person

Homosexuality is very easy to occur during adolescence. If it is not corrected in time, it will affect their lives and their parents will be worried. It is necessary to correct it in time, have a correct understanding of oneself, overcome psychological barriers and inferiority, and communicate more with normal people.

1. We should overcome inferiority complex by correctly understanding and evaluating ourselves. Those boys who admire handsome, muscular and strong men of the same sex mainly think that they lack masculinity in appearance and are relatively weak in character, thus developing "gender identity disorder" and thinking that it would be better for them to be girls. In essence, this is a manifestation of psychological immaturity. As long as you work hard to improve yourself, you will inevitably mature. Therefore, in front of strong people of the same sex, you should not feel inferior, but realize that their today is your tomorrow. While appreciating them, design a beautiful blueprint for your own future, which of course is not only about appearance, but also about a rich inner world.

2. You must find your own position in interpersonal communication - how to be on an equal footing with people of the same sex around you without backing down; how to be free and easy in front of girls and experience the pride and unrestrainedness of a man. Interacting with the opposite sex is much more difficult than interacting with the same sex, and you must overcome fear and hesitation; if you can take the initiative to interact and gain acceptance from the opposite sex, you are successful. This kind of interaction is helpful in shaping your own personality and making up for your own shortcomings.

3. Think and explore: What are the differences between being a man and a woman? What are the behavioral norms that society requires of men and women? How can you accept your own gender? You can observe the people around you, discuss with classmates and friends, ask adults you trust, or look for answers in literary and artistic works. When you have a clearer understanding of these issues, you will be able to free yourself from sexual dilemmas and no longer have doubts about your gender role.

4. We should have an objective and scientific understanding of the existence of "homosexuality". It is undeniable that homosexual people and phenomena do exist in reality, and real homosexuals do not want to change themselves, do not feel pain, and generally do not require psychological counseling and treatment. But if you are not deliberately pursuing homosexuality, or have never engaged in such behavior, but only remain in the idea and doubt, and at the same time, you very much want to free yourself from it, then change is possible. This is because many boys in adolescence have "homophobia", the essence of which is the fear and anxiety about growing up, and the subconscious worry and lack of confidence in the future. This is a normal psychological abnormality in the psychological development of adolescents. Therefore, the so-called "mental homosexuality" or "homosexual tendencies" in adolescence are easy to correct.