Boys' Puberty Education

The education of children when they reach puberty is very important. At this time, children have matured in all aspects, but they are curious about many things. Parents and teachers should play a very important role in education and guidance. We also see that many children, especially boys, will have many problems during adolescence, such as rebellion and even going on the road of crime. Therefore, adolescent education for boys is very important.

When children reach puberty, they will encounter various physical and psychological conflicts. Many parents do not pay attention to their children's adolescent education, especially the adolescent education of boys is not very reasonable, which will have a great impact on the children's future growth and development as well as mental health.

Boys are most likely to worry about the size of their penis during puberty. The first thing that must be understood is that penis size does not affect sexual ability.

In addition to the issue of size, there is the issue of the beginning. Some people's penises bend to the left or right. This is just like how everyone looks different. There is no need to make a fuss about it. Foreign sex education books even publish dozens of different types of sexual organs, which shows that human sexual organs really have their own merits.

Young boys are less clear about what other people's genitals look like. Ignorance causes anxiety, which in turn causes inferiority complex. They suspect that their genitals are too small, too short, or too dark in color. This inferiority complex is often just a self-inflicted worry.

Most men have a "short complex" and always feel that their penis is too small. If they understand the actual situation, they will naturally not worry. Many reports like to list the "standard length" of the male penis. This is not a very appropriate approach, especially the word "standard", which can easily lead people to misunderstand that anything below the standard is abnormal. In fact, no matter the size or length, the shape of the genitals will not affect sexual life, which is something that must be kept in mind.

Not having experienced sexual pleasure is the biggest regret in life, and not having sexual desire is even more unfortunate!

Some boys often complain that it is difficult for their penis to erect. These boys have never had any sexual experience, let alone the pleasure of masturbation. What is more serious is that some of them have never masturbated and have no sexual desire until they are 18 years old.

This phenomenon is mostly caused by the inability to satisfy certain desires in daily life. In other words, problems with sexual organs are actually caused by psychological factors.

Concern for women: Young boys develop curiosity about the female body, and parents do not need to make a fuss about pornographic photos. Children's concern about sex becomes concrete when they begin to ask where they come from. This question is the first step in establishing oneself, and parents must answer it carefully. When little boys start elementary school, they become curious about little girls and show their concern about gender differences through games like imitating doctors and lifting skirts.

By middle school, this concern shifted to pornographic photos. In fact, what he wanted to see was the real female body, but he didn't have the opportunity. Pornographic photos can be considered a form of compensation, so there is no need to strictly prohibit them. The more you forbid children to watch them, the more curious they may become. Some mothers will ask their husbands not to bring adult magazines home for their children to read. In the eyes of children, this behavior is instead seen as hypocrisy.

If a mother finds that her son has pornographic photos, she must understand that her son has reached puberty and that the photos can stimulate his sexual desire and help him vent his sexual desire. If she simply prohibits him from taking these photos, it will only do harm and no benefit. Unless your child is interested in pictures of sexual violence or abuse, don't make a big deal about it.

Once you are sexually aroused, you should not force others to have sex, otherwise the consequences will be disastrous.

If sexual behavior is carried out with the will of both parties, it is mostly healthy. However, if one party forces others to have sexual intercourse in order to satisfy his or her own sexual desire, it is abnormal sexual behavior. Some boys like to collect photos of sexual abuse or women being raped. This may lead him to commit crimes, so we must be careful. It is very important to provide young people with healthy and normal sexual knowledge and teach them to distinguish abnormal sexual behavior.

Nocturnal emission is a normal phenomenon. Although it may stain your clothes, you don’t need to exercise to avoid it. It is quite common for boys to start having wet dreams when they are in primary or middle school. Nocturnal emission refers to the situation where a man ejaculates during sleep due to dreaming. This is different from "nocturnal emission", which is ejaculation without dreaming, but both are involuntary ejaculation.

Nowadays, many boys have nocturnal emissions at the age of eight. The reasons may be excessive storage of semen, sexual stimulation, or friction of the penis by a quilt. These are all normal phenomena. Some people are influenced by incorrect ideas and believe that nocturnal emissions, in addition to staining clothes, can also make people stupid. This is an unfounded statement and you don't need to believe it.

Interacting with the opposite sex is an inevitable phenomenon. If you deliberately suppress your sexual desire when you are young, you will become at a loss when facing your wife after marriage.

For teenagers, interacting with the opposite sex is a necessary process for their personality maturation. It is also a very natural phenomenon for them to develop an interest in the opposite sex at a certain age. If this is deliberately prohibited and then suddenly lifted when they reach the marriageable age, they will inevitably be at a loss as to what to do. In the conservative society of the past, women had to strictly abide by etiquette. After marriage, they suddenly assumed the mission given by society and family, played an active role in sex life, had to please their husbands, and had to give birth to offspring... However, is it really so easy for human behavior to change so drastically?

Communication between opposite sexes is a very natural thing. Some rigid schools or teachers often strictly forbid communication between boys and girls. Young people have no chance to learn how to get along with each other. How can they fully understand the opposite sex and maintain good relations between the sexes in the future? As a result, there are many adults who do not understand the opposite sex and cannot have a healthy sex life. There are certain rules for interactions between the opposite sex, and these are for teenagers.

First of all, love letters must be handled properly. It is inevitable for young people to exchange love letters. When handling such letters, honesty should be the principle. It would be a different matter if the letter was confiscated by the parents.

Second, you must let your parents know who you are dating.

Third, in order to avoid pregnancy, you must correctly understand contraceptive methods.

Parents and teachers must pay attention to the adolescent education of boys, and they should learn more common sense in this area. Children are very curious during this period, especially about sex, and want to eat the forbidden fruit. If there is no good guidance at this time, it will cause a lot of trouble and will also affect the child's future growth.