Signs that a man is deeply hurt in love

In a romantic relationship, getting hurt is a common phenomenon in relationships between men and women. Whether it is a boy or a girl who is injured, the psychological damage to themselves is very great. Although every man looks very generous and optimistic on the surface, in fact, male friends are also easily hurt in relationships. It’s just that they don’t show it easily after being hurt, so how will men behave after being seriously hurt in a relationship?

Everyone has been hurt in love to some extent. What are the characteristics of men who have been hurt in love?

1. Believe that women are realistic

I always hear many people say that in today's society, as long as you have money, you can find any kind of woman. Not only can you choose any one, but you can also wander among many women at the same time. But in fact, there are such women, but there are also many good women. In real society, there are many women who value feelings and do not regard money as the primary criterion for choosing a mate. Therefore, men who generally think that women are realistic have been hurt by women to some extent.

2. Don’t dare to fall in love again

After being hurt in love, many men always set up a protective measure for themselves. They like to surround themselves and dare not contact some people from the outside world, especially the opposite sex. They are always worried that once they start to give, they will be hurt again. Such people often choose not to fall in love again.

3. Don’t dare to give too much

People who have been hurt always don't get a response or even recognition from others after their efforts, so they will slowly become less willing to give as before, for fear of being hurt again. Such a man does not really not love you, but he is now resistant to love, so he dare not give his all.

4. Stop talking about the past

How can a person who is truly heartbroken talk about the past as if nothing happened? If a man has been hurt by love, he will never mention the past. When you ask him, he will evade and not say a word. At this time, women must not misunderstand that men are deliberately deceiving them or hiding things from them. It’s just that the scar will always be there, and he doesn’t want to rub salt into the wound. He hopes that his current love will not repeat the same mistakes, and he just wants to be with you. The past is no longer meaningful.