Psychological analysis of speaking without considering the person

Everyone knows that when communicating with others, you need to look into their eyes, because speaking with their eyes represents respect, and it will make your words more convincing and improve your quality. However, some people dare not look into other people's eyes when communicating with others. Most of these people are timid, and some arrogant people disdain to look into other people's eyes. So what is it like to speak without looking into other people's hearts?

There are generally two types of people who do this. One is an arrogant person, whose eyes are often fixed on a certain focus instead of looking at the person he is talking to, to show that his behavior of ignoring the other person's gaze is active rather than unconscious; the other is a personality that lacks self-confidence, as you asked, but this personality is not necessarily a fixed personality, and is often a relative lack of self-confidence in the field. Interestingly, these two types often switch back and forth. Many people become the second type when facing a strong person, but become the first type when facing a weak person.

Introverted and unconfident people don't like to look people in the eye when talking.

From a probability perspective, there is nothing wrong with this. The basis for this is: most people who are inferior and lack confidence will feel nervous when looking into the eyes of another person during a conversation. It’s not because they are nervous about looking at the other person itself, but because when looking into the eyes of others, introverted and inferior people will feel that they are being observed and detected. Due to inferiority complex, people will feel uncomfortable when being observed and detected. Confident people are not like this. They are more willing to be observed and detected, and will not be overly sensitive to observation and detection.

Analysis of situations where one speaks without looking into the other person’s eyes:

1: People who don’t look into each other’s eyes when talking are people with low self-esteem and lack of confidence.

2: In fact, if the interlocutor does not look into the other person's eyes, it means that he does not want to listen to the other person's explanation or to put it simply, end it as soon as possible...

3: Eye contact is only worthwhile when the conversation is very in-depth or the crucial final point is reached.

4: The protagonist is expressing his own feelings

[Conclusion] There are two types of people who don't look people in the eye when speaking. One is the one with low self-esteem and dares not look people in the eye; the other is the one who is arrogant and disdains to look you in the eye. These two types of people are absolutely extreme and their performance is also different. You have to observe them based on some details to be able to identify people more accurately.