Signs of a bad relationship between husband and wife

The divorce rate in China has increased dramatically in recent years, and most couples have gone from talking about everything to having nothing to talk about, which eventually leads to the breakdown of their relationship. The reason why most couples have bad relationships is that they have nothing to say to each other and there is no sweet feeling. Secondly, they basically have no sex life. Their life is basically like a silent movie and they can't find any topics for communication. These are mostly manifestations of poor relationships between Chinese couples.

First, there is no sweet feeling.

When a man and a woman get married in the name of love, under normal circumstances, they will have a sweet period. After a long marriage, although there is not much sweetness, there is still some. However, your marriage now has no sweetness at all, and your daily life is mechanical and boring, with quarrels every day.

Second, the couple no longer has sex.

There is only one state for a happy couple: love and sex. When a couple stops having sex, it means that their relationship has or is about to have problems: either the couple or one of them is not interested in resisting, or there is a physical problem, or they have never slept in the same bed and have already separated, etc.

Third, children become the only topic

The couple has nothing in common anymore, and the only topic they talk about now is their children. In other words, the couple just wants to maintain their marriage for the sake of their children's future and they don't want a single-parent family to bring harm to their children's growth. This is a typical "pregnant marriage"!

Fourth, the couple is too lazy to even argue

Frankly speaking, it’s not good for couples to quarrel too much, but it’s also scary when they don’t quarrel. Because sometimes, not quarreling doesn’t mean the relationship is good, but it’s because one is completely numb to the partner and is too lazy to even quarrel.

Fifth, spread the word about unhappy marriages

Generally speaking, family disgrace should not be made public. However, if one spouse spreads the word that their marriage is unhappy, (1) this is a sign of stupidity, (2) it instills an impression that no one should be surprised if they divorce one day, and (3) it helps them gain sympathy. By spreading the word about their unhappiness, they are making the other spouse blame, thus occupying the moral high ground.

Sixth, the atmosphere at home is super depressing

Home is a warm harbor, but the atmosphere in your home is very depressing right now. It can be said that it is dead silent every day. There is no breath of life at all, which makes people not want to go home at all. It’s okay if one person is at home, but when two people are at home, the atmosphere is more solemn.

Seventh, calculate the gains and losses of divorce property

When the relationship between husband and wife is good, your partner will feel honored when you use his or her things. But when the relationship between husband and wife is bad, they will care about even a needle. When a couple starts calculating the gains and losses of divorce property, 99% of the time their relationship is over.

The eighth one is full of curses on the partner

Rumor in the world: If they are not lovers, they are enemies. Sometimes this is the case between husband and wife. If the relationship is not good, they become mortal enemies. Their hearts are full of resentment towards their partners, and they wish that the other person would go to hell. They become insidious and vicious.

Ninth, each of them publicly kept a lover

If a couple secretly keeps a lover, even if the lover is extremely extreme and perverted, the marriage can still be maintained well. But if a husband and wife openly keep a lover and are not afraid of the other party knowing and do not feel ashamed, the existence of this kind of relationship may just be a kind of need.