The reason why boys like girls' feet

Why do some boys like girls' feet? This is a form of foot fetishism, and many people consider preferences like this to be psychological problems. In fact, this is neither a disease nor a psychological problem, it is a normal phenomenon. Foot fetish usually occurs in boys. A hobby is simply a preference that goes beyond the ordinary. So why do boys like girls' feet?

To this day, many people do not understand why so many people have foot fetishes. In fact, the reason why people have foot fetishes is entirely due to the olfactory nerves. This is not a pathological manifestation. Everyone likes different things. We must look at things with a developmental perspective and be tolerant of other people's preferences, just like some people like to drink. Everyone gets what they need.

There is still no unified answer to the understanding of foot fetishism. In physiology, neurologist Vilayanur S. Ramachandran believes that in the sensory area of ​​the cerebral cortex, the neurons responsible for reproduction and the neurons in the feet are located close to each other, which may make people subconsciously associate the feet with reproductive organs. Human's animal olfactory instinct is also believed to be the cause of foot fetishism. Some experts believe that women's feet, like their vaginas, emit odors, which stimulate sexual desire in the opposite sex and thus form foot fetishism.

Psychology and psychoanalysis also have their own views on foot fetishism. Psychologist Freud believed that women's feet, especially in China, are often hidden, so men can get the psychological pleasure of discovering other people's secrets by peeping at women's feet. Many foot fetishists desire to be trampled on by others, causing them pain and thus getting pleasure. This is exactly the same as the psychology of masochists in sexual sadomasochism.

Ellis and Freud believed that this mentality was due to a desire for love. Masochists believed that they were being abused because the abusers loved them and cared about them. A study found that most children who were abused by their mothers would not leave their mothers when they grew up, and would always try their best to express their love to them. If these mothers died, many of these children would have mental problems. This is because they regarded their mothers' abuse as an expression of love, which coincides with the traditional Chinese concept that "beating is love" and "a filial son is born under the stick."

Horney believed that because victims of abuse have a dual fear of "their own weakness" and "their own lack of importance" in their hearts, they hope to be inflicted with pain and torture. On the one hand, it can make them feel noticed by others, and on the other hand, it can alleviate their fear through pain and torture. The experimental results also show that the masochists' "anxiety about no longer being loved sometimes even exceeds their anxiety about being killed or castrated." In order to be loved by others, they are willing to submit. Masochists are very afraid of feeling cold, and there is a physiological view that they are willing to be beaten in order to warm their skin and thus feel warm.

In addition to the desire for love, victims of abuse also have a need for attention from others. He hopes to escape loneliness and gain interpersonal relationships, because in the process of being abused, there must be an abuser. If the victim's fear reaches an extreme point, he will go to the extreme of "giving up himself", which is characterized by "completely giving up his own personality and becoming one with others."

French writer Flaubert was judged by historians to have a serious shoe fetish. He often stared at women's short boots. In his "Madame Bovary", he wrote that whenever he was determined to get rid of the things that fascinated him about Emma, ​​"as soon as I heard the sound of her (Emma's) boots, all my determination immediately collapsed, like a drunkard seeing strong liquor."