The reason why I am still single

Nowadays, there are more and more single people, which we often call single dogs. Moreover, many people of a very old age are still single, so older single young people are often urged to get married by their parents, which makes everyone feel overwhelmed. Single young people often go on blind dates, but it is difficult to find a suitable partner in a short period of time. There are many reasons why people are single nowadays, some are due to their own reasons, and some are due to many other objective factors. So, what are the reasons for being single?

First, you have a bad mentality, think too much, and feel that you are not good enough or excellent enough. In fact, it is basically because you are not confident enough and do not understand women's minds.

In fact, women are not as materialistic as everyone imagines. As long as you make women feel comfortable when getting along with them, you have the most basic foundation for picking up girls.

Second, they don’t know the basic skills of picking up girls

In fact, many grown men don’t know how to pursue girls, and they use some wrong ways to pursue girls, such as: being nice to girls and obeying them; creating romance for women; giving gifts to women; and so on. Most of these wrong ways are heard from society and friends around them. However, they are often wrong, and only what has been tested by practice is the truth. Women will feel that such men do not understand women at all.

If you want to understand women and know the skills to pick up girls, you have to keep interacting and communicating with women. Even if you don't fall in love with girls, just being friends with them will be a great benefit, and it will help you make great progress in picking up girls in the future.

Third, there will always be women who like good men, which will make them feel superior and always feel that their destiny has not yet arrived. Good women will also be pursued by more men, and they will also feel more superior. Both types of people with a sense of superiority are often unwilling to "surrender" to each other because of this sense of superiority. Men will not be very proactive, and women will be even less proactive. Therefore, we found that the more outstanding people are, the harder it is for them to find their other half. They often wait for others to pursue them.

Fourth, being hurt by love

Maybe you have had emotional experiences before, but you have been hurt, so you are still very cautious about love, fearing that you will get hurt again. This is human instinct. If you suffer a loss in some aspect, you will definitely be careful next time. I have some friends like this around me. After being hurt in love, they will be more afraid and insecure.

Fifth, no good first impression

I have also told you in the previous article that a woman's judgment on a man, whether he is her potential boyfriend or a good man, will only be made within the first few minutes of her contact with the man. Some women with strong social intuition can even make the decision in just a few seconds.

Therefore, your first impression is particularly important. If you make a good impression, you will have a chance to win the woman. If you make a bad first impression, you will be eliminated by the woman directly. Here are some things that the first impression includes:

1. Personal image. The most common factors are your hairstyle, skin and clothing.

2. Speech and behavior, the way you speak, your attitude and tone when speaking, etc.

3. Body language: keep your head up, chest out, shoulders relaxed, firm eyes, etc.

4. Aura, or the feeling it gives people. The best aura is gentle, easy to get along with and approachable.

Probably the above four factors will determine your first impression of a girl. If you start from these aspects and do well, you will basically have a good impression, thus laying the best foundation for you to win the girl.

Brothers can check whether they have the above problems. If so, change them. If you change them, you will have a great chance of regaining the favor of women.