What are the harms of a woman being a widow

In many marriages, many women are actually in a weak position. Especially now society has stricter requirements for women. Therefore, in many families, there are women who remain widows. This situation is very common for many middle-aged and elderly couples. Due to moral constraints, many women cannot change this situation. So, what are the harms of a woman being a widow?

Such voices are often heard at the dinner table: after middle age, the love between husband and wife becomes more and more indifferent, and some even sleep in separate beds for ten years. When two people get along, it feels like the left hand touching the right hand.

Recently I saw a survey report on intimacy in Chinese marital relationships by a relevant department. The survey collected valid questionnaires from 8,000 couples. The report shows that the factors that most harm the intimacy between couples are cold violence (56.4%), suspicion and lack of trust (53.9%), cheating (52.4%), disharmonious sexual life (46.5%), and domestic violence (43.1%).

A set of statistics from the civil affairs department is even more shocking. In the past ten years, the number of divorces in China has reached 30.628 million, with a cumulative growth rate of 98.1%.

Even for those marriages that have not divorced and are still "making do" for various reasons, "sexlessness" has spread like a virus, and many marriages have been stripped of "sex" and become sexless marriages. There is an exaggerated saying that even among married men and women, half of the women are living as widows.

Among all family relationships, the relationship between husband and wife always comes first. Any relationship must give way to the marriage relationship. Only when the relationship between husband and wife is good can other problems be easily solved. Even if there is no sex, one cannot let lovelessness erode the relationship between two people, even if it is just family affection.

How is your relationship with your significant other? Have you also fallen into the quagmire of embarrassment?

Nowadays, in rural areas, more and more men no longer stay at home to farm, but choose to work in big cities. This has led to a phenomenon that there are more and more left-behind women in rural areas, and the term "left-behind widowhood" has appeared in the minds of rural women.

First, women who work hard and manage the household. This kind of woman deserves the most praise. While her husband works hard outside, she works hard at home and does the logistical work with her own hands. Although my husband is not at home, I should not let my guard down as I have elderly parents and young children to take care of.

The second type is women who play mahjong all day long. To be honest, this kind of woman is terrible. All the money her husband earned through hard work was lost at the mahjong table. Because this kind of woman has no husband around, she sits at the mahjong table all day long and basically does nothing.

The third type is the unfaithful woman. This kind of woman is the most hateful. In order to satisfy her own desires, she ignores her husband who is thousands of miles away and does some shameful things behind her husband's back. You can see them on the grass, in the fields, and in public. It is really hateful.

It is not easy for rural women to stay at home, and it is not easy for their husbands to work hard outside. A complete family requires the joint efforts of both husband and wife. I also hope that rural women will work hard at home, be thrifty, and work together to create a better future.