How to deal with a husband with a bad temper

When a couple lives together, they need to understand each other, and if they quarrel frequently, it is easy to slowly burn out their feelings. Everyone knows that home is not a place to reason, but a place to talk about affection. If a man has a bad temper, he must learn to control his temper, otherwise it will affect the harmony of the family and may also affect his family and children. How should I deal with my husband who has a bad temper?

Understand your husband’s personality traits

You need to have a comprehensive understanding of your man, know what he likes and dislikes, what things he is happy to do and what things are the triggers. If you understand his personality, you can easily avoid his bad temper.

Make yourself more feminine

It is difficult for a man to get angry with the woman he loves deeply. Either his partner's behavior makes her feel annoyed, or he is naturally irritable. If he wants to ease his anger towards you, make yourself more feminine and make him love you deeply. In this way, if you accidentally touch his temper occasionally, he may feel sympathy for you and control himself.

When you reach a point of conflict, don't confront it head-on.

You should know that it is difficult for a person who is losing his temper to control his emotions rationally. If your husband is impulsive and has a hot temper one day, you should keep quiet in front of him. Wait until he calms down before talking to him. Don't confront him head-on, otherwise you will always be the one who gets hurt. This is what is called it takes two to tango. If you really have to say something that will annoy him, you can say it to him through someone else's mouth. Different people will have different effects when saying it. Never say it yourself, otherwise you will just be asking for trouble.

Give him a smile and a hug

If your husband is angry, a woman can make good use of your gentle skills. Sometimes a smile, a hug, or a bit of coquettishness can turn the danger into safety. In short, find his weaknesses and attack them, and there will be no big problems.

Men have bad tempers and are easily angry. You should learn to accept them.

That means not being picky, blaming or complaining about your husband. Instead, accept his current personality and treat it calmly regardless of his strengths and weaknesses. Get along with him with trust, encouragement and a positive attitude. Let him feel spiritually happy, gain a sense of satisfaction and self-confidence, and thereby gain the motivation to do good.

Men have bad tempers and are easily angered. You should learn to respect him.

There is an old Chinese saying, "A gentleman will die for his confidant." I think this saying is also suitable for the relationship between husband and wife. If a wife regards her husband as her confidant, trusts him completely and respects him, it can enhance his self-esteem and stimulate the good side of his nature. For example, a man who is generally known to have a bad temper and vulgar behavior has unknowingly become a steady and kind husband after marriage. When others asked him the reason, he said, "My wife trusts me. She never blames me, but just believes in me blindly, which makes me embarrassed not to change." It can be seen from this that "to change a willful or cruel person, there is no better way than to show your affection to him and let him change himself."

A man with a bad temper needs help to change

People with bad tempers find it difficult to control their emotions, and confronting them head-on will only make them angry and even more violent. Therefore, if you understand their temper and master some ways to suppress it, you can gradually change their temper.