Tips for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to get along

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a topic of discussion among people after dinner. You will find that there are generally two types of relationships between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, one is particularly good, and the other is that they will never have any contact with each other. If there are conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the root cause is that they cannot understand each other. It is difficult for a mother-in-law to treat her daughter-in-law as her daughter, and it is also difficult for a daughter-in-law to treat her mother-in-law as her own mother. Therefore, once a small conflict occurs, misunderstandings are likely to occur. So what methods can be used to improve the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law?

Everyone likes to hear nice words. No matter if it is someone who hates you or likes you, they will be happy if you say nice things to them. The mother-in-law is not an enemy, but the person your husband loves the most. You will live together with her in the future. So no matter how much you dislike her in your heart, don't show it and learn to accept it. After all, my mother-in-law is old, and she has lived for so many years, so she still has a lot of life experience. Learn more from her and often praise her for her ability and wisdom. She will be very happy. An old child means that even though she is old, she is still like a child at heart and also needs praise from others. The praise from the daughter-in-law is a recognition of the mother-in-law, and the mother-in-law will feel satisfied and happy. If the mother-in-law is happy, she will certainly be kind to her daughter-in-law.

Don't complain to your mother-in-law

People often say that mother-in-law is another mother, but the editor here wants to tell those daughters-in-law that mother-in-law is not your biological mother after all. Even if she is close to you, there is still some gap, and you still cannot treat her as casually as your biological mother. In daily life, you are happy to tell your mother about any unhappiness or suffering in your heart, but remember not to complain to your mother-in-law. If you complain to your mother-in-law, although she will comfort you on the surface, she will be very annoyed in her heart, and will also feel that you are ignorant and have no good impression of you. Therefore, do not complain to your mother-in-law. Even if you really encounter something unpleasant, you can talk to your own mother or husband and complain a few words.

The older generation has experienced hard times. Although their lives are better now, the frugality in their bones still exists. They cannot stand young people's extravagant spending, so it is easy for daughters-in-law to have conflicts with their mothers-in-law in this regard. Life after marriage is all about slowness and frugality. Spend the money that should be spent and don’t spend the money that shouldn’t be spent. It’s better to be frugal. If there is a real conflict between the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law, the editor suggests that the daughter-in-law buys a gift for the mother-in-law at this time to comfort her and ease the conflict, which will make the mother-in-law feel better.

Take good care of your husband

The daughter-in-law is not her biological son, but the husband is the mother-in-law's biological son. The daughter-in-law takes good care of her husband. The mother-in-law will be very happy to see that her son is well taken care of and in good health, and will look at the daughter-in-law more.

Work hard

Mothers-in-law like diligent daughters-in-law, but dislike lazy daughters-in-law. My mother-in-law is old and can't stand her daughter-in-law's laziness. Everyone likes people who work hard. Even the most evil mother-in-law will not be able to find fault with a diligent daughter-in-law.

My mother-in-law is old and has low immunity, so she may get sick easily. This requires that you should pay more attention to your mother-in-law's health. Your mother-in-law can understand your concern for you. Although she may not say it verbally, she actually feels it in her heart. If you treat her well, she will naturally treat you well, so don't be stingy with your love and care.

Stand alone

The mother-in-law prefers a daughter-in-law who can stand on her own feet, is decisive, can arrange household affairs in an orderly manner, and is virtuous. This will make the mother-in-law very happy. If you manage the household well, your husband will be happy and will praise you for being capable.