How to maintain a marriage

There are too many unhappy marriages in today's society. Many unhappy marriages are mostly caused by different views and ideas between the two people, but many people are unwilling to lose this marriage and hope to save the unhappy marriage through some means. Of course, if it can be saved, it would be the best situation, but many people do not know how to save their marriage. So, how to maintain a marriage?

First, how to maintain a marriage? When choosing a marriage partner, I think there are a few points that must be carefully considered: Whether the communication styles of both parties can be compatible with each other is the most important point. It is not about whether there is a common language in daily life, but how to communicate when there are differences and problems. To put it bluntly, if a man is a reasonable person, a woman must also be a reasonable person. If a man is a person who likes to use his fists to speak, a woman must also be someone who is willing to be punched. If a woman likes to nag, a man has to get used to it. In short, the two people must have a process to come up with a unified opinion that both parties can accept. It’s best if everyone is willing to accept it. In fact, this is not a problem for people who truly love each other. Two people who truly love each other will always think about problems from each other's perspective.

Second, love is enough to satisfy one’s hunger, but unfortunately it is only enough to satisfy one meal. A man is free before he gets married, but once he gets married, the burden comes. The pressure brought by the union of two people is definitely enormous, and the ability of both parties to bear it must be considered. If you are unable to bear it, then don't harm others and yourself. If your girlfriend likes money, marry her if you have money. If you don’t have money, don’t sell your home to marry her. Some burdens are carried for a lifetime. When it comes to marriage, the woman who is willing to struggle with you is the one you should truly cherish. The process of two people improving their lives together is already a valuable asset in marriage. Don’t say there are few women like this nowadays, there are quite a lot! If you always stare at women who dress up and want to change their fate by getting married, don’t blame women for being realistic. If you have never planned for your future, don't blame a woman for not wanting to fight with you.

How to maintain a marriage? Marriage is not everything in life. When two people walk hand in hand for a lifetime, it is beneficial to help each other and harmful to hinder each other. Whether it's complementary personalities or like-mindedness, it's really important for each other to be a support to each other. If you feel tired before marrying a woman, believe me, don't get married. Home is a harbor, a place where a man will unconsciously speed up his pace when he gets close to home. It is a place where you can completely relax and take off all disguises once you get home. It is a place where all smiles come from the heart. When you get married, you must marry a woman who makes you feel relaxed. Really! After saying so much, there must be brothers who say that it is difficult to find a woman who meets all these conditions. In fact, it is not difficult. The first and third points are not a problem as long as the woman loves you. Second, it’s not a problem as long as you look for one among women of the same level as you.