​A lot of blood was shed the first time

When girls have sex for the first time, they usually experience bleeding symptoms. This is caused by the rupture of the hymen. Generally, the amount of bleeding will not be too much and it will return to normal in two or three days. However, many girls will experience heavy bleeding and long duration during their first time. This is a phenomenon, but it is caused by abnormal uterine bleeding. Patients need to go to the hospital for examination in time.

1. Is it normal to bleed a lot the first time?

Generally, a virgin will experience bleeding due to rupture of the hymen during her first sexual intercourse. The amount of bleeding is usually not large and the body can recover within 2-3 days. However, if the amount of bleeding is large and lasts for a long time, It is recommended to consider abnormal uterine bleeding and it is best to go to the hospital for examination.

2. What should you pay attention to the first time?

1. Age

If you think that you are an adult at the age of eighteen and can do whatever you want, then let me tell you that if you have sex with a boy at the age of eighteen, it can easily cause a series of gynecological diseases and may even lead to infertility. Do you believe it? Remember, before you have sex, check your age.

2. Boyfriend

That boyfriend you want to have sex with, do you plan to stay with him forever? What does he take you for? Is she a sex partner or a woman you are prepared to accompany for life? No matter how things develop in the future, at least before having sex, you must understand what kind of person he thinks of you at this moment.

3. Contraception

Even if the man says that he will marry you immediately if you get pregnant, and makes you some great promises, you should still ask him not to wear a condom, or choose to take birth control pills yourself. If you get pregnant before getting married, your possible outcomes are either being abandoned and having a miscarriage, or having to marry someone else with a grievance, or being given some money to do it yourself.

4. Health and safety

Before you have sex for the first time, check out the man to see if he is someone who can transmit sexually transmitted diseases to you, or if he is someone who will bring you into endless gynecological diseases. Health and safety are something that neither you nor he can ignore.

5. Be willing to do this

If he asks you to have sex with him and you refuse in your heart, then immediately wrap up your clothes and walk out. Sex is something that two people do willingly. Once you accept it reluctantly, it will definitely bring you endless regrets.

6. Environmental safety

If he wants you on the grass, kick him and spit at him. A man who doesn't even create a safe environment for girls and wants to take their first time, what can you expect from such a man?

7. Sex toys are safe

If he buys some adult supplies that look scary to you, tell him it's your first time. If he insists, walk away immediately. A girl’s first time is very precious. If it leaves a shadow, it will not only harm your body, but will also be a lifelong shadow and burden on your spirit.