The importance of parental education

Regarding the importance of parental education, let us talk to you. All parents hope that their children will thrive, excel, grow up and become an outstanding young person. However, as the saying goes, parents are the best teachers for their children. The quality of parental education depends on the quality of the parents. Children favor their parents' education and upbringing during their growth process, which is conducive to their development and future, so parental education is very important.

Question 1

1. Enhance the sense of responsibility for educating children

Marx attached great importance to family education. He said: "The profession of a judge is law, the profession of a missionary is religion, and the profession of a parent is the education of children." These words tell people: No matter what profession we are in, as long as we have children and become parents, educating children becomes a sacred profession and an unshirkable responsibility. It is related to the future of the child and the happiness of the family.

Question 2

Some parents believe that the family only cares about the children's lives, and education is the school's business. They do not realize that educating children is first and foremost the responsibility of parents. Some parents spoil their children and relax their education, which is also a failure to fulfill their responsibilities well. There are also a very small number of parents who only care about "making money" and do not pay attention to their children's education at all, completely abandoning their natural duties as parents. French writer Flaubert once said: "The fate of a country lies not so much in the hands of those in power as in the hands of parents." Therefore, parents should strengthen their sense of responsibility in educating their children and fulfill the sacred duties entrusted to them by society and the country.

Question 3

Parents should improve their own quality and set an example for their children

Some people say: "teaching without teaching" in family education. This statement may not be accurate, but it does make sense, that is, family education does not rely mainly on words, but on example. The biggest feature of family education is its subtle influence. Parents often influence their children unconsciously in their daily lives. Especially for young children, their thinking is concrete and figurative, and they are very imitative. Imitation is the main way for them to learn how to be a human being. In the family, parents become their main targets of imitation. Parents' behavioral habits, standards of right and wrong, attitude towards others, moral concepts and many other aspects are always influencing their children. Therefore, people often say: children are the mirror of their parents. If you want your children to become a certain kind of person, parents should first be that kind of person. Honest parents will definitely raise honest children; parents who swear all the time will not be able to raise civilized children; selfish parents will not be able to raise selfless children. During a tutoring consultation, a mother told me that her five-year-old daughter had a bad temper, often lost her temper at her, and often attacked other children in kindergarten. When I learned more about the child's family education, I found out that the child's father had a very rough personality and often treated his daughter with beatings and other corporal punishments. Apparently, the child acquired her bad character from her father. A mother who teaches her children well pays great attention to cultivating her children's honesty. She said, "In order to cultivate my child's honesty, I always keep my word in front of him." This mother used the method of teaching by example to cultivate her children's good qualities and achieved very good results.