What are the eight manifestations of poor eloquence?

Many people in life are not satisfied with their eloquence. In fact, there are many reasons for poor eloquence, such as poor psychological quality. When it comes to the critical moment, some people are always overly nervous and cannot express what they want to express. Others are afraid of offending others by speaking, so they often think about it, which will also greatly affect their eloquence. So what are the manifestations of those who have poor eloquence?

Eight manifestations of poor eloquence:

1: Being nervous when speaking.

2: Speech is not clear;

3: There is something in my stomach but I can’t express it;

4: It is easy to offend people when speaking;

5. The speech is not attractive;

6: Can speak but the speech is incoherent;

7: The mouth is faster than the brain, and the wrong words are said as soon as they are opened;

8: Likes to speak big words and official language, but cannot speak small words.

Social unspoken rules

① It is difficult to achieve great things if you don't speak your mind and are unrestrained.

② Be careful with your words, be independent, learn to compromise, and at the same time, stick to your most basic principles.

③If two people make a mistake at the same time, the one who stands up and takes responsibility is called tolerance, and the debt owed by the other party will be repaid sooner or later.

④ See through but don’t say it out loud. For many things, as long as you know them in your heart, there is no need to speak them out.

Twelve essentials of speaking

Think about your own affairs first;

Speak carefully about other people's affairs;

Speak slowly about urgent matters;

Things that are not urgent should be discussed at the right time.

Big things, briefly;

Small things, said humorously;

Don’t talk about things that are not certain easily.

Hurtful things are said in a tactful way;

Talk about happy things calmly;

Sad things, talk about them with an open mind;

Now, do it first.

We’ll talk about the future in the future.

Principles of speaking and communicating

When communicating with an elderly person, do not forget his self-esteem;

When communicating with a man, don’t forget his face;

When communicating with a woman, don’t forget her emotions;

When communicating with your superior, do not forget his dignity;

When communicating with young people, don’t forget his directness;

When communicating with children, don't forget their innocence.

If you go around the world with the same attitude, you will inevitably run into obstacles everywhere;

Only by adapting to local conditions and tailoring people to different situations can we achieve success everywhere.

Speech is as plain as water

If what a person says is always as bland as boiled water and has no appeal at all, then no one will like to listen to it. The atmosphere at this time was either very depressing, or everyone was just whispering with the people around them and was unwilling to listen to his speech. This type of people need to cultivate their own sense of humor, observe how people around them usually communicate, and then put what they have learned into practice. A humorous and interesting person can easily liven up the atmosphere with his words.