How to improve your eloquence?

When we find someone around us has good eloquence, we will be very envious. Indeed, everyone wants to have good eloquence. To improve eloquence, we need to start from many aspects, such as forging a good psychological quality. In addition, we should often conduct practical training and find more opportunities to practice our eloquence. It is recommended that you comprehensively improve your eloquence from the following aspects.

How to improve your eloquence?

1. Improve your courage to speak.

When conducting eloquence training, the trainees must muster up courage and confidence. Especially those trainees who have not yet taken the "first step" should seize every opportunity to train themselves. You can't stand on the shore and watch others swim, otherwise you will always be afraid of water.

2. Build enough confidence

Take public speaking as an example. Some speakers with low self-confidence will become depressed and develop inferiority complex and depression after failing in a speech, which is very detrimental to public speaking. In fact, the favorable and unfavorable conditions in a speech should be viewed dialectically and analyzed in detail. By finding ways to improve, unfavorable factors can be turned into favorable ones. There is no need to take the problem too seriously. In particular, even if the unfavorable conditions caused by some objective factors cause some interference to the speech, the audience can understand it. The speaker can completely let go of his mental burden and devote himself to the speech wholeheartedly.

3. Develop self-control

Calmness is the condition for keeping human wisdom efficient and regenerating. Only when the mind is calm can people quickly identify and suppress the relevant factors that cause negative psychology, and at the same time identify and stimulate the relevant factors that cause negative psychology. For example: When a speaker encounters a situation where the audience is unwilling to listen or raises criticisms, in order to suppress panic and dissatisfaction, he should calmly analyze and find out whether the real reason lies with the audience or with himself, and what the specific reason is. If you don't keep calm and don't know how to control yourself, you won't be able to find the problem and the situation will get out of control. Therefore, no matter what situation occurs in oral communication, the first thing you need is to be calm and composed.

4. Develop a spirit of self-reliance

For a good speaker, self-improvement means not being afraid of failure, setbacks and frustrations, daring and being good at rising again and again from failures in oral communication, daring and being good at straightening one's back and walking up to the podium again and again from setbacks, and consciously undergoing training and tests in various situations such as good times and bad times, victory and failure, so as to cultivate one's resilience. It is inevitable for a person to fail. As long as he is not willing to fail and is not discouraged, analyzes the reasons with a positive attitude, learns lessons, and persists in speaking, he will move from failure to success. For example: Former Japanese Prime Minister Kakuei Tanaka suffered from stuttering when he was a teenager, but he was not intimidated by the difficulties. In order to overcome stuttering and improve his eloquence, he often recited and read texts slowly. In order to pronounce accurately, he corrected the position of his mouth and the root of his tongue in front of the mirror, seriously and meticulously.